Along with the myriad of questions you Newbie’s have you also possess an understandable concern for your privacy, anonymity and for LE. Consider then also the concerns of the (incall) provider you are visiting. She is not merely another nomad anonymously stopping temporarily in a non-descript neighborhood. She is either living there or invested in the trick-pad you are visiting. She must always be aware of neighbors and landlords and what they may be seeing, detecting or assuming. One of the most common ways LE gets a provider in their cross-hairs is through neighbors reporting high foot traffic to a lady’s door. It is for this reason I offer a few simple steps that will help insure the provider you so much enjoyed this month will still be there next month..

1. Unless otherwise directed don’t park directly in front of their door (especially if it is a single dwelling home or duplex, fourplex etc. Take the time to observe the surrounding area and pedestrians if any. Conduct yourself accordingly so as to bring no attention to you or your destination.  

2. If it’s an apartment building and you are walking down the hall to her apt and see a possible neighbor in the hall; if at all possible make a serpentine trip around the hallways in hopes that curious eyes will leave the area before you approach her door.

3. Knock softly if/when knocking on her door. It’s not your knock alone that raises the next door neighbor’s attention it’s your knock along with the several more per day that raises eyebrows.

4. Wait to start conversation after you are IN her place with the door shut behind you.
If it is a return visit don’t exclaim for the world to hear “Hay sexy; how ya been?” while you are still half way in the hallway.

5. Although universally appreciated; bouquets of flowers are also a red flag because you’re not the only hopeless romantic on this planet.

 In short; just keep a consciousness about the surroundings and move as stealthfully about them as possible. This heightened awareness will serve both your provider and you as well.    





-- Modified on 1/14/2006 12:36:17 AM

Tremendous post, This should be stuck at the beginning of every board here.. I Cant tell you how many times when I travel, I always get a " HI CIARA or BYE CIARA Outside my doors..

More importantly,  I'd suggest these excellent common sense reminders be posted on the website of any escort who provides incall services. A lot of TER members go straight to the reviews and websites, bypassing the boards entirely.

I wouldn't want to skulk around like a CIA
operative just to get laid.

Each to his own; but I rather enjoy the fantasy of 007 talking advantage of the opportunity for a surreptitious liaison with the comely moll of the head of an international crime syndicate.

An amazing post. As a retired ASP that has moved on to better things, the level of stupidity I came across with this was unbeleivable. I love to scan the borads and throw in a comment or two as I don't have to kiss ass....I can actually say what I truely believe with no repercussions whatso ever. But this post should be re-iterrated on the general board as some of the old timers sometimes forget or get bent out of shape when you kindly ask them not to brimg flowers or at least cover the wine bottle with your coat. You would have been a great client... at least in this capacity

I have had the good fortune to be tutored by an ATF who is the Donald Trump of providers.

Add this one:  if she's in a hotel - go with luggage!  You look suspecious walking away without
a bag in a hotel.  Wheeling around some luggage says
you are a hotel guest - not a provider's guest!!

While it is a good idea to have luggage, it may not be practical.  Consider the man who is visiting someone on his lunch break -- the wife might want to know why he has luggage in the family car.   Also, when I am in a Hotel or Motel I frequently go and leave many times during my stay.  Also the people at the front desk might be more concerned about a person they don't recognize 'moving in' with luggage, than the person who is visiting a friend in the Hotel.

Tailor your luggage to circumstances.
A sports bag works well as does a briefcase (even in the family car).

I have a lovely repeat client that visits me with his laptop bag in hand when arriving at my hotel for incall. It could be empty, for all I know, but makes him look professional and legit, without the appearance of "moving in". Smart guy.