I did a search for age difference and didn't find much, so I'm sorry if this is a repeat. I'm 23 and I'm wondering if that will be a problem for providers particularly providers who are older then I am? It seems in my area the most reviewed (and therefore for probably the safest) providers are in mid to late 30's. To be honest I'd prefer someone more experienced for several reasons so for me this is actually a plus in my opinion, I just don't want it to be a problem.

Also, for personal appearance, I'm not the most attractive guy out there, I'm not ugly, or terribly out of shape on a scale of one to ten I'd say that i am about a five, is this a problem? Should i start working out before considering starting this hobby?

Sorry for the probably ridiculous questions, but honestly these are probably two of my bigger worries before taking the plunge and calling a provider, I don't want to be a waste of their time.

Thanks in advance for any help or advice.

whew wi! Youse a youngin'!

A nice,respectful client is 20x more hot than a ripped Brad Pitt body double. I usually find the "pretty" men think they are doing YOU a service! I even had one ask to lower my rate by 100 roses because he was "good looking" and "good in bed" in which I promptly deleted his number and never saw him again.

Being young can exclude you from some providers. Make sure to ask if age is considered. I know some ladies do not see men under 30. I don't reccomend hitting the gym, looking good is OUR job  However if you can not survive 5min of activity then maybe you need to workout.(some ladies like doing all the work, I like to split it 50/50) If you are severely obese then that is something to mention to a provider as some providers do not cater to these sorts. If you are in the average-overweight range then you will be fine.

Remember to stay away from asking any questions that are sexual explicit. asking "Do you see men who are younger than you?" are safe. But do ask before meeting a lady so both of you have a good experience.

Just like in civvie life.

Some ladies like older guys for various reasons, so age MIGHT be an issue for some ladies. However, if you screen OK and have money, most shouldn't care.

As for appearance, I am living, breathing and walking proof that it doesn't matter... I am not particularly height/weight proportional, and I certainly don't look like Harrison Ford.

I would let them know you're young. Do not worry about appearance, unless you're so obese that htere are health or other considerations. (I'm 5'9" / 250#).

have very good hygiene.  If you will be coming from work, ask ahead of time if the lady offers a shower (some incall locations do not have showers).

Taking you points in order:

The reality is your age will be an issue for some providers in their 30s, but there will be many for whom it isn't an issue

If you are a 5 out of 10 on looks your in the same bucket as most of us.  If providers only see 8+ looks guys most of them would starve.

As far as working out, probably a good thing to do for yourself and your health more than to see one of the ladies.

Hope this helps.  Enjoy.