just wondering what the best sites to advertise for are. I havent had any luck with foxyslist or tryst.link in a while Eros and silxa has helped the most but they also cost the most. Is tryst.link even worth paying for the membership?  

PLEASE HELP LADIES, if you reply with your twitter I will retweet.

xoxo,
Jessica

P411 has always been great for me in NYC!  

Warmly,
Callie

Unfortunately, in Chicago, Eros is the best bet.  Of course, that's the reason it's so expensive.  

Definitely look into RS-AVS for Chicago, as well.   It's less $ than Eros but a good return on investment and it's also a verification service.    Guys who are members there are easy to screen, IMO.  
I think it's more popular there than Slixa but I could be wrong.  It's been around a loooong time, I do know that.  

I haven't gotten many Chicago clients from P411 but some ladies do.    Tweeting #Chicago #DatesChicago etc also seems to work.  

 
I have never worked in NYC so I can't recommend any sites for that area.  

Good luck!!!