I am constantly getting asked what the difference btwn GFE, Greek & PSE are so I figured I'd address it here and hopefully it'll spare me from having to constantly repeat myself!

After being in the biz for years and meeting a lot of providers and discussing these things, it seems the general consensus is as follows (ladies feel free to add to this if you feel something is missing or you think I'm wrong)

***GFE -The "Girl Friend experience": for starters NO this does not mean that she provides full service without a cover.  

What you can expect is a sensual, erotic, romanticish, relaxed environment type of session. One where you get to know each other, actually converse and connect on multiple levels. Much like a gf you talk about a broad range of topics and of course the fun part is still the fun part. Now some of you probably want a menu or a list of things she will or wont do. I do not like to provide one because honestly every girl is different and don't all adhere to one set standard. Much like it is in real life, (remember providers are real life women) not every woman likes all the same things so expecting that there is one generic list that encompasses all providers, sets unrealistic expectations for hobbyists.  

Example: One provider may offer a GFE session but is not ok with Greek while another may offer GFE with Greek. Or one provider may allow FIV but another may not, but they both offer GFE.

***Since I touched on Greek I will address it next.  

Greek for those of you who don't know what that means, Greek is another word that refers to anal. Greek is NOT limited to just PSE providers. I know GFE providers who offer Greek but do not offer PSE. And PSE providers who don't offer Greek.  

***PSE - The "porn star experience": for starters NO this does not mean that she provides full service without a cover.  

In my opinion there are two types of PSE. There are the PSE providers who are actual porn stars and there are PSE providers who are not porn stars but offer this experience.  

What you can expect is the opposite of GFE. The providers and gents seeking this experience are NOT interested in getting to know each or spending much time talking. If you watch porn, you've probably noticed a trend where most videos lean more towards the rougher, down and dirty style than the softer sensual Female Friendly porn which is more along the lines of a GFE session.

PSE is more about the hot, dirty, gritty, no talking, just straight up get to it, sometimes a lil rougher (gonzo style) session. Its not about a connection its simply about just getting to it. Again I won't provide a menu as each girl differs in what she will or wont do. And to expect that just because she offers PSE she is ok with everything is once again setting unrealistic expectations.  

Example: Some PSE providers offer Greek and others dont. Just like in porn, not all girls who do porn do Greek so its only logical to apply the same rules. And again some girls may allow you to CIF while others don't. Or some many allow you to choke them or slap them in the face and others wont.  

In the end it boils down to what kind of experience you are looking for. Do you wish to get to know your provider and have a genuine connection? Or do you just want to get down to business and not worry about the small talk?  

If you have a list of menu items you seek in a provider do not assume that either GFE or PSE provides or doesn't provides those items, as each provider has her own menu of what she will or wont do, regardless of the type of service she offers. You can try and ask her if she offers the things on your menu but be aware many ladies DO NOT like to discuss such things especially on the phone. If they have reviews I suggest you do your research on the provider your interested in. If she's new then your taking a chance and while taking a chance may be scary (welcome to our world!) you might also be pleasantly surprise. Make sure to share your experience as that is what this is all about. =)  

Consider asking or suggest those items once things are underway so as not to scare her away before things even start! Or go thru screening and once your cleared and she deems you safe, ask her if you can send her your menu items. I suggest you list them as follows: must have's & would like but not mandatory. Then state in the same email that if she cannot provide the menu items on your mandatory list to please simply reply that she is not able to provide you with an appointment. This way she doesn't feel like she's compromised or exposed herself and you won't waste your time booking an appt your going to be unsatisfied with. And if she is ok with your mandatory list then she can continue with booking. Do expect that your "like but not mandatory" list may not be fully met. You can't always expect to find a provider that meets ALL your needs and if you do then you should keep her on your ATF list cause they are rare!

Once again just my two cents feel free to add your two in if you feel like it.  

- Jas