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blondeBlueEyes 1 Reviews 2232 reads
posted
1 / 18

First of all...why the ban on kissing?  Is it because:

1. Strangers mouths are gross
2. Helps girl keep a boundary ("at least I save this one thing for a special guy")
3. It's a gateway to becoming involved with a client

Second...what ways are there to get a provider to loosen up about kissing?

1. See her a 2nd (or 3rd, etc.) time?
2. Offer extra cash for that specifically?
3. Just be persistent about trying to reach those lips that are turned 90 degrees away (not much hope there, I'm guessing)

1192967 45 Reviews 1220 reads
posted
2 / 18

Reviews and profile. Juicy details will let you know if she kisses and if it's LFK or DFK or just lips. Profile says Kisses? Yes - with tongue, or Yes, -without tongue or No. Maybe not exactly those words but words to that effect. I haven't seen a provider that didn't kiss. LFK, DFK.  But I know they are out there. But I won't be seeing them. Kissing is important to me in a session.

I she doesn't kiss probably not going to get her to. If you want kissing see the ladies with reviews that say they do. It could also be a YMMV thing.

Reasons - there are as many as there are providers probably. Some say kissing is too intimate. Some are concerned about STD's.

I actually had a woman (not a provider) say she could do K9 and not even have to look at a guys face. According to her when it involves the face (especially eyes) and mouth it is much more intimate than fucking because there are so many positions that don't get the face involved. She felt the same way about a blow job even though it involves her mouth but it wasn't face to face. She wasn't looking at you while she did it. Knowing her I believe she was being truthful. Yes, we were discussing sex of money.

sexyshiloh See my TER Reviews 742 reads
posted
3 / 18

Mmm...hard to say. When I first started off I also did not kiss. Now, I want to truly experience the sort of "dating" experience. I fantasize that I am reunited with a lover as if he has been away for a long period of time.

Of course, if I were ever in a situation where I felt kissing would put me more at risk, then I would avoid it. But that is very rare for me. Keep mouth wash around to kill the germs...damnit!

Kisses

SomeHumorName 815 reads
posted
4 / 18

1. Yes, disease, germs, bacteria, bad breath, and so on.
2. Not really, either your intimate and into the person, or you are not. Boundary? You're already giving it up for cash. Don't speak about boundaries.
3. Kissing is not a gateway of becoming involved with a client, your over thinking this. Again, he's paying you for your time, would u see him OTC?
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1. First, if she wants to kiss or not, it shouldn't be no 2 or 3 time.
2. I don't offer extra cash for kissing. Period!!
3. If a provider is avoiding a kiss, then Y even persist?

Ask some real life questions, maybe I can help you from there.

Posted By: blondeBlueEyes
First of all...why the ban on kissing?  Is it because:

1. Strangers mouths are gross
2. Helps girl keep a boundary ("at least I save this one thing for a special guy")
3. It's a gateway to becoming involved with a client

Second...what ways are there to get a provider to loosen up about kissing?

1. See her a 2nd (or 3rd, etc.) time?
2. Offer extra cash for that specifically?
3. Just be persistent about trying to reach those lips that are turned 90 degrees away (not much hope there, I'm guessing)

mrfisher 115 Reviews 1073 reads
posted
5 / 18

As to the second question, add an item 4:

Be sure your breathe is fresh and clean.  Go the extra mile to floss, brush, gargle, etc.  Also lay off the garlic for at least a week prior to a date (It stays in the blood steam for around that long and passes to the breathe through the lungs.)

Most of the gals I see do kiss, and I love it.

sexyangelique69 See my TER Reviews 731 reads
posted
6 / 18

Instead of coming up with a list of reasons that show your complete lack of understanding?

Just remember, when you have a date, you picked the girl you WANT to kiss and because you are visually oriented, all you need to do is look at her and you are good to go.

So, of course, you can't possibly imagine what it is like for the provider. Your question comes off like you think women should just ignore all their own feelings and preferences just because you gave them some money.

Women are not visually oriented like men, so it takes a lot more than just seeing any man (even an attractive one) to WANT to kiss him.

So, forcing a kiss is forcing her to to bypass her natural desires and the normal steps to physical intimacy.

I don't like kissing until I've had time to talk and "break the ice" with a date. It just doesn't feel right to jump into something so intimate with a complete stranger.

rightonppl 29 Reviews 817 reads
posted
7 / 18

a couple of weeks ago. It appears he's not reading all the helpful replies he gets.

inicky46 61 Reviews 1060 reads
posted
8 / 18

Virtually all girls who advertise themselves as GFE kiss.  It is part of the definition of GFE.  And, yes, read the reviews and that will confirm it.

rightonppl 29 Reviews 493 reads
posted
9 / 18

in ads as just another snappy buzzword with no regard for its definition. I'm often seeing complaints about "GFE" girls who don't kiss. Reviews are the only way to tell.

Dr Who revived 785 reads
posted
10 / 18

you might have more offered to you than just the "quickie rate session".

You posted this back in July that you only see 30 minute gals (and sessions)..and now you're wondering why there is no kissing.

You might want to read a whole lot more on this and other boards to understand the nature of this particular beast.  Or you will continue asking questions such as your OP that are just "not smart".

And I am surmising that the gals you have, or plan on, seeing are found on sources that promote the "cheaper" gals versus what we have already suggested to you as "reliable companions".

But if all you can afford, or care to spend is enough for a quickie, then just accept the reality of what you have already discovered.  There are no other "hidden agendas" the gals have...simply to get you in and out as quickly as possible.  And from your OP, they are succeeding in your case.

inicky46 61 Reviews 406 reads
posted
11 / 18

didn't want to get into a whole discussion about what GFE is supposed to mean.  There are some idiots who think it even means BBFS.  But it's certainly supposed to include kissing and BBBJ, plus DATY -- at a minimum.  I do know, of course, that some girls use it but don't walk the walk.

Freya Fantasia See my TER Reviews 663 reads
posted
12 / 18

No garlic for a week?  Wow!  You're pretty hard on yourself!  I keep listerine in the bathroom next to dixie cups for clients to use.  I always have a supply of watermelon trident gum around too.  Not for my clients so much-I want to make sure my breath is fresh, too.

Freya Fantasia See my TER Reviews 777 reads
posted
13 / 18

I've always been told that there were three components to GFE-BBBJ, DATY, and kissing.

Freya Fantasia See my TER Reviews 831 reads
posted
14 / 18

That's true...but most of the ladies I work with and me will provide the same services in a hh session as in a 1H.  I do limit my BDSM sessions though.  I have so many toys that there just isn't time for role playing and domination in a hh session.

Dr Who revived 528 reads
posted
15 / 18

that will provide many GFE types of services.  And since the OP suggested he is from Chicago (as I am), I can only surmise (since he hasn't posted a review under his handle) that he is seeing gals that are NOT reviewed and is perusing the other malls that the 1/2 hour gals advertise on, and not on the malls that the full service gals are located.  And if he did look at the full service gals, he will find that (almost) none will see him for less than an hour.

So from my experiences here I doubt he will find gals on a consistent basis that will give him what he says he is seeking...given his time and $$$ limitations.

inicky46 61 Reviews 1473 reads
posted
16 / 18
blondeBlueEyes 1 Reviews 624 reads
posted
17 / 18

You got most of it right...full service escorts and hour-long sessions is beyond what I think is sensible for me to spend on a hobby.  I've had good times and duds equally mixed.

Posted By: ChgoCPA
that will provide many GFE types of services.  And since the OP suggested he is from Chicago (as I am), I can only surmise (since he hasn't posted a review under his handle) that he is seeing gals that are NOT reviewed and is perusing the other malls that the 1/2 hour gals advertise on, and not on the malls that the full service gals are located.  And if he did look at the full service gals, he will find that (almost) none will see him for less than an hour.

So from my experiences here I doubt he will find gals on a consistent basis that will give him what he says he is seeking...given his time and $$$ limitations.

curt23 13 Reviews 930 reads
posted
18 / 18

Well given that information, you'll be very lucky to even find the occasional girl who will kiss you. Your perfectly fine seeing what you prefer, but to expect the extra services described on these boards, that are offered from full service hour long providers, in a half hour or less girl is not very likely. It is like going to a fast food restaurant and then posting why weren't there any waiters. Nothing wrong with your choices as long as your expectations match what you are paying for.
Most of the advice you have received on this board is geared around guys looking for full service hour long sessions. Guys who have tired of the hit and miss aspect you describe and are looking for ways to get a much higher percentage of good times. So we tell them see the highly reviewed pros known for their service as close to a sure thing as you can get.

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