I know you are never supposed to discuss anything prior to your meeting.  However after the session is over is it proper etiquette to ask the provider questions about the profession?  I have always been fasinated by the lifestyle but don't want to offend the provider.

I've spoken shop with many ladies. Be careful of the ones that get specific.

Nothing ruins the illusion like knowing some of the stuff I've heard.

You may ask whatever questions you like, after the session. You may not get an answer for some or you may not get the answer you wanted to hear. The "lifestyle" may not be quite as fascinating as you think. Most of us have very regular lifestyles, work, school, families, shopping for groceries, walking the dogs...

I suppose you could ask, but why?  Most of these ladies get the same questions over, and over ad nauseam.  If I were to be asked the same things like "How did you get into this business" every single day, I'd go homicidal.  

Now, if the lady you're visiting brings up the topic and seems to want to talk about it, then fine...ask away.  She opened the door.  Personally, I treat the women I visit just like any other person or normal situation I encounter.  Sometimes we talk about life in general, movies or music we like, philosophies, likes or dislikes, etc.  I never bring up her job first as a personal policy.

Believe me, she will have you all figured out ten times faster than you'll figure her out.

If she wants to get chatty with you about things, she will indicate it.

Be careful what you wish for, on the other hand.

Most gals remain pretty circumspect and for very good reasons.

If I feel that you are the type of person who enjoys fact not fiction I would be more than happy to answer any question you may have. If your looking for the "Pretty Woman Story" then I will sugar coat any answer I give. My only tip would be to not ask personal questions.

I know that some people have an urge, but it is best to fight it when you feel like you HAVE to ask:

1) Do your parents know what you do?

2) Do you friends know?

3) How many men do you see a day?

4) How much money you make?

5) Why do you do this?

there are more .. but these 5 are the "winners"

Lina

I would wait until you've seen a few escorts and click well with a lady. Once you understand the rythm of a session, you'll find the time for discussion. Most of the time, I've found if I don't ask questions the lady will volunteer some info. But don't act like it's an interrogation or a game of 20 questions, or she probably will wrap things up really fast and not see you again.

session include:

*  Does your SO/husband know what you do?

** Do you pay taxes?

*** Can we do BBFS?

Would you feel comfortable her asking you does your wife/SO know or why do you see escorts, or how many women have you seen? I guess it's all relative but I tend to err on the side of what would I be comfortable answering if the tables were turned. Some might be OK with it and others might shut you down...politely of course.

talking about general subjects like you mentioned (movies, books, politics).  When someone asks me a question that I don't want to answer, which is anything professional, I prefer to smile and change the subject.

Don't ask me if I have a boyfriend/husband. And then, when ... uh, if I say no, PLEASE don't ask "why not?"

Especially if we're nearing Valentine's Day. I may hit you.