A lot of things are sexy in the bedroom; anaphylaxis is not one of them!!
Thank you!

Talking about personal lives and drama and others not sexy in bedroom either.

Not a provider but I'll give you my two cents for free, not that it's worth even that much.

I've never been asked if I had an allergy. I don't have any. Hypothetically, if I had a latex allergy and I failed to mention it at some point before the condom went on and I had some form of reaction, I would consider that 100% my own damn fault. If a person has any kind of allergy and they know about it and they're over 16 years old, it's their job to take care of themselves and avoid their allergens. Not the world's job.

If someone was going to ask me, frank and honest, quick and simple would be my preference. Don't pussyfoot around, just ask no big deal.

it turns out that Skyn condoms are latex-free. (Thanks Google!) I just like them because they feel great!
I've never been asked about a latex allergy. I suppose that if I had one, I'd bring along an unopened box of latex-free condoms.  
Sorry, that still doesn't answer your question, though ... Maybe you could sexily offer a choice?

Don't have to ask cute analogy or dance around the subject. Ask like an adult and they will appreciate and find that sexy. Always awesome to have options !

I use this brand for exactly that reason!  I keel a few others on hand, just in case, but better to cover the board broadly and not have to worry about it. My favorite is their extra-thin type.  My general idea is that those who have a latex allergy have probably known about it well before making it to my bedroom, so I trust that they would be inclined to share this with me.

Good question!

Not much sexier than a woman laying on her stomach with her skin all oiled up and massaging her. And then when you focus on her ass as she puts it up in the air a little to welcome the ass massage and shows you what you love to look at at.  
Oh hell Nice!!!!

As an Army Brat and former Sailor, I just always come super prepared. Latex, lambskin, polyurethane, female condoms. Large ones, average ones, etc. While I hate to break the mood by asking questions, sometimes it's necessary if it all hasn't been worked out beforehand.  

I also have a questionnaire that I send clients after they have been screened that ask if they are allergic to anything.

...I always mention them in communication with my provider BEFORE our session. Certain scents, burning candles (particulates and more scents), some cleaning products, etc., can be a trigger for an asthma attack. So as the person with the sensitivities, I feel it's incumbent upon ME to make sure an allergic reaction doesn't get in the way of a great time.

I'd appreciate the inquiry from someone concerned about an allergy to latex and the straightforward way is sexy -- but I value clear communication.

GFE $$$ / hr
Extras:  
Greek +$
Couples +$
MFM +$
EpiPen +$$$$ (free delivery)
Two EpiPens +$$$$$$$ (free delivery plus 911 call included)

$600+ for a two-pack:

I tell everyone that! Communication is sexy!!!!

But did I hear you say lambskin?  You do realize, I hope, that Lambskin only prevents pregnancy, but does not protect against disease?  IOW, lambskin condoms are NOT for use in the hobby.  You might as well go BB.

They are just better condoms overall anyways...However I would assume a hobbyist would know he is allergic to latex prior to the meeting and communicate that in a discreet way or bring his own.

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I stand by it 100%, as I have a latex allergy