That's what reviews are for

read them and discover if she's slow/fast out of the gate. What's simpler than that.

I have clients who enjoy visiting for a few minutes and those who do not.  Most providers realize that every man is different and each has their own expectations, likes, dislikes, and so on.  You can either let her know ahead of time, or when you walk into the room, if she starts to visit for too long, just plant a DFK on her, and that will give her the cue that you are ready to get going.  

Good luck, Mr. Introvert.  

she might think you're a bit weird, but if she's a professional and you behave yourself you shouldn't have any problem.

It's her job to be the gal you want her to be, withing certain limits of course.  Not being chatty is certainly within bounds.

Not every client likes to talk..some just want the passion to start as soon as one walks in the door.. I never thought any of them to be creepy. You can let her know when you make the final arrangements by saying "im not much of a talker" or like someone else stated...just plant a dfk on her and she will walk right into that mode..least I would

and all the characters he played. Well, let me tell you, he wasn't much of a talker either, but I doubt if he ever had trouble getting laid

Like everyone else is saying, read her reviews, let her know want you want, and that you're a man of few words. Good luck!

I like to talk, but not to every girl. I've actually had appointments where the girl was less of a talker than I and I got the hint lol

Basically, no you don't have to spend time getting to know each other or sharing life experiences if that's what you're concerned about. That's where the definitions of GFE vary. For some, we want to establish some sort of connection. Others would assume that the girlfriend might already know everything there is to know and should just be ready for fun. Basically, nothing wrong with what you're expecting... just make sure that you remember that not being talkative and being respectful aren't opposites and you'll be fine.

If you don't mind my asking...

I may be just speaking for myself but Im pretty sure most providers would agree that we are  completely fine with getting down to business or talking before. If you are uncomfortable talking more than likely we will be able to tell and want to get to the fun part as well! lol ... so like previously said... Tell the provider ahead of time or when you get there just start getting undressed or plant one on her ... we can take a hint!