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xxalicexx2065 reads

I'm just wondering where I could put a report/warning on a totally creepy client.
In the two years I've been working, I really just havn't had the need to.
Until today.
This guy today was just way too strange and creepy to just let it go.
I take so many precautions and I'm incredibly picky with who I'll see,
He seemed so incredibly normal, until about 2 minutes after he walked through the door.
First time I've ever genuinely been worried O_O
Hell.. I'm STILL creeped out, lol... ugh.
Yuck.

Really appreciate if there's anyone who can point me in the right direction here though

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BigPapasan721 reads

... whether he had a kink that you found creepy or if he was potentially dangerous or ripped you off.

I heard of one guy who liked to wear a wetsuit while fucking.  Creepy - yes, reportable - no.

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xxalicexx835 reads

oh, creepy as in possibly dangerous and unpredictable. suspicious behavior.
showing up with no intent on paying for services, and attempting to manipulate his way  
into intimidating a provider into giving free services.
definitely needs reporting

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xxalicexx673 reads

yeah, lol... i totally realize everyone has their kinks. hell i have quite a few of my own, lol ;)
this was absolutely different though. HUGE difference.

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BigPapasan580 reads

...which providers can use to report creeps.

Related Link: http://theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=86866&boardID=33&page=

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xxalicexx575 reads

I'm not the type to blacklist someone on a whim.
like I'd said, in two entire years I havn't felt the need to.
This guy made me afraid.  
He started haggling about my rates, after he'd been fine with it before he showed up..
all the way down to 20 bucks.
When I told him flat out I don't do ANYTHING for that amount, or anywhere even near that amount,
He even went as far as trying to convince me he was Law Enforcement, and if I didn't want
to be arrested I'd give him services for no cost.  

Fortunately I'm not naive and wasn't born yesterday and was able to get rid of him
with no actual harm done, just a lot of time wasted.

I just feel it should be reported somewhere...

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GaGambler529 reads

Have you given any thought as to how much of this you have brought on yourself. When you start off with rates more appropriate for a third world country, you host out of your own home, and you use BP to attract your clients, I am surprised this doesn't happen more often to you.

I would suggest that you would be better served by taking a closer look as to how you run your business to avoid this in the future, rather than concentrating on how to report a guy who you most likely never should have let get close to your door in the first place.

You have been offered some very good advice since coming onto TER, but If you won't take our advice, there isn't much we can do to help you.

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Deal_Me_In425 reads

I can't imagine that and it gives me the shivers to think about .

Any who, great to see you around. I figured this time of the year you would be hanging around a cornfield working as a scarecrow.

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mrfisher461 reads

If so, you should contact those providers and tell them about his behavior so that they don't give out any more references.

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toofuckingstupid607 reads

that's the joke of the century. you use backpage, rates are rock bottom, you have admitted to working out of your own house, have admitted to doing bareback full service in the beginning, having guys show up on your doorstep leaving notes and you are NOW working while pregnant. ter would never let you into the ladies room, so i guess use a blacklist site.

people have tried to tell you that your own actions are causing most of this, but you instead blow up at them.

 http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=634784&boardID=12&page=#634784

rememeber that thread?  
why keep asking for advice when you never take it? insanity.

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keystonekid501 reads

in order to get different results, you need to change the behavior pattern. Otherwise, the same results that you are unhappy with continue to occur. Works the same way in the real world too.

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Alyssa Marie411 reads

Can you please answer all of us that have!???

Why do you charge 150 an hour and 85 for half an hour?? And... Why do you let all of your clients visit your home??

It has been asked before, but you haven't answered.

Seriously, why do you do this?

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HeathersLuv4u452 reads

someone being forced.
She is not making these decisions on her own nor with a sound mind.
I will leave it at that for now...;-)..

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Alyssa Marie451 reads

That sucks and I really hope that you (the OP) can get the heck out of that situation and ASAP!

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