Wear clothes that you would wear when going out to to a nice restaurant - the shirt should have a collar, no jeans, leather shoes with socks, and make sure they are all clean and in good shape.
Flowers are not a very good gift if you want to bring one. Check out the gal's site and see what she suggests for gifts. A gift card to Amazon would be a nice touch if nothing else. Food is not good because of weight issues and allergies.
In most cases you do not seal the envelope. Check out the gal's site and see if she has a protocol for that.
A hug and kiss is more common when greeting her.
If you are coming straight from home, then you should shower first, but if you are coming from work, then by all means ask about taking a shower. She will appreciate it.
Do not plan to use your own condoms, but it never hurts to carry an UNOPENED box (Like a three pack) with you just in case.
GFE entails lots of kissing, cuddling, friendly demeanor, and usually BBBJ, at a minimum. Beyond that, it is up to her. You should buy VIP membership to read her reviews. That is the best way of knowing what to expect.
Most gals have MSOG (multiple shots on goal), and you should get a full hour, but this is not always the case. Again, become a VIP and read her reviews.
Have a shot of Jack Daniels and calm down, then go have some fun.
Man...what do I wear? Do I bring flowers? Seal the envelope? Do I shake her hand when we meet? Put donation on table ASAP? Then turn around and ask, "where's the shower? Should I shower ?" Do I bring my own condoms? Is she GFE? What does that entail? Kissing and no condoms or kissing and condoms? Does she have a one and done rule, or do I get the full hour?
Ahh! Many questions I have. So nervous! But I can't wait.
Most ladies won't start clock till you shower from what I've seen here. Never had to though I either hit locker room at work or from home after telling wife a convincing story of course. If you've done you're homework you've found a pro who will put you at ease from the moment she opens the door. Hardest part will be from car to elevator act and dress like you belong and you'll be fine though you'll probally have to hold on to the handles in elevator on the way up because you're damn near shaking (I did). Most reputable ladies will allow multiple pops but if all you've got is an hour might be difficult to pull off, not judging we've all been there. I thought it would be like first time sex wham bam and done cause it had been 15 years with no one but SO, maybe it's nerves but you may surprise yourself. Good luck and let us know how it goes.
what do I wear? - Something neat and clean. Easy to remove.
Do I bring flowers? - Up to you but they are not as appreciated as you may think usually as you are just giving her something to take care of and dispose of. Gifts on a first visit are a transparent. I personally would wait till later in the relationship so they have a little more meaning.
Seal the envelope? - No, she has to open it after all. She would like to do this without causing some big tear sound as she may want to check the contents discreetly while you shower or clean up.
Do I shake her hand when we meet? - God no. She isn't a man at a business meeting. She is a woman treat her as such. Greet her with a smile and a easy, warm demeanor. Give her a hug. If inclined and she seems open to it offer a kiss.
Put donation on table ASAP? If this is your first meeting yes without making a fuss place it where it can be seen. I personally also hand over my DL on a first meeting to help her relax. She is human too and has her own worries.
Then turn around and ask, "where's the shower? Should I shower ?" - If you ask "should I shower" then politeness makes it hard for her to say yes. Don't put her in a position to be telling you right off that she thinks you are dirty and disgusting. A shower isn't required in the first place when often a spot clean with a tower or wash cloth will get the job done just as well in less time. Maybe leave the shower for after. Main point, don't ASK if you should clean up. Just clean up.
Do I bring my own condoms? - If you require a special size then yes. Otherwise she generally will have a supply of her favorites.
Is she GFE? - I don't know, is she?
What does that entail? Kissing and no condoms or kissing and condoms? - GFE almost always involves kissing if you want it and should always involve condoms with sex. Her reviews and profile will tell you if a condom is required for a BJ. Never ask for sex without a condom. Again you are putting her in a position of having to potentially insult you when she says no and it is insulting to her to ask her to put herself at risk like that. It also makes you look like an idiot to even want it.
Does she have a one and done rule, or do I get the full hour? - If it is GFE you generally get the full hour.
It's time behind closed doors... so you want to be showered when you arrive. I have the luxury of leaving from home so under an hour, the gals have told me I'm good. Hot weather or other factors might change that. Don't plan on a full shower, just hit the pits, privates & ass if you have showered recently. Yes, your shower time is on the clock unless she decides otherwise... It's a nice perk if she allows a few minutes to rinse off. Be sure to wash your hands well... no telling how many germy door knobs you've touched in the last hour. It might make a difference to her feelings about where your fingers get to wander.
1. I wasn't nearly as nervous as I thought I would be (and I was expecting to be pretty nervous). 5 minutes in and not a care in the world.
2. I showered before I left the house (it was about a 25 minute drive). I brought an "overnight" bag with a towel and a few select items and cleaned up the "important" areas again at a place close to the in-call so I didn't have to worry about a shower beforehand.
3. I was interested in a shower afterward so I made sure I left some time on the clock so that I wouldn't go over.
4. As far as what to wear, I would ask the lady. More often than not, you just need clean, nice clothes....whether it be jeans, nice shorts, khaki's, or whatever. But you do want to make sure what you are wearing is appropriate for where you are going (so you don't stick out like a sore thumb).
5. Call me anal, but I actually made a check list to beforehand and memorized it. Just to make sure I didn't screw anything up. And 30 different things will be going through your mind (and other parts of your body). Never hurts to make sure you don't forget anything!
it seems to me your research is extremely lacking. I will try to answer your questions, even though the previous posters prob have already done so, I didn't read all the posts.
1. Dress appropriate for where you are meeting her, and the climate. 2. Flowers not a good idea, candy, candles, or gift cards are much better. 3. Do not seal the envelope. 4. When greeting her, let her take the lead, she will prob want to give you a hug, and maybe a kiss. 5. Relax and leave the donation in a conspicuous place. If you looked at her website, she may have indicated where she wants it. 6. No shower needed, unless she requests it, or you have driven a long way to get to her. 7. Most providers will prefer to use their own condoms. If you need magnums, you might bring some, but generally, no. 8. Again, research. You should already know if she is GFE, and what she considers to be that. 9. Not sure I know what you mean by 'kissing and no condoms or kissing and condoms'. Condoms will prob mandatory for an FS experience. 10. One and done? Again, you should know this from research, same with full hour. If you paid for an hour, you should be entitled to an hour of her time. Research will tell you if she is prone to rush guys out after the first pop.
With all these question HJ, it really appears to me, you are pretty clueless about your first date. Sorry if I'm being blunt, but all these questions you should know answers before you get to her incall, which I seriously hope you doing rather than outcall.
hattjimmy, I'm still fairly new at this. I can almost assure you that when the door opens an attractive woman wearing probably not a whole lot of clothes is going to greet you with a nice hug and kiss. Not totally unlike your girlfriend would, which of course is the point. But someone you never met before! It's almost the best part.
And I agree with those who say feel free to say you're a little nervous. Wish I'd thought of that on dates decades ago -- probably would have made things easier in the end.
On the other hand I'm learning it;s good to have an agenda. She'll ask what you want to do, and you should tell her. Within the bounds of respect and what's on the menu you are entitled. Her time is yours.
before you even bust a nut lol. The only thing you need to do is...
1. Bring accurate amount of money and put it down where she can see it..who cares if it is sealed, not sealed or if you put it in a ziploc bag...most women are not going to scream at you for that.
2. Be on time, freshly showered, and don't draw attention to yourself...gifts are nice, but would not bring flowers.
3. Don't talk about sex before you get into the moment...messes up the mood, and makes you seem like a cop or just clueless.
4. Let her take the lead, and go back to points 1-3.
I can't wait to meet her. I will get VIP and give details. We are meeting Friday, I spoke with her tonight on the phone. She is so nice and charming. Thanks again.
Thank you honey. I am glad to hear I could be of some help to you. Some people act like all I do is rant on here, but damn...I do sneak in some helpful info. inbetween the bitching lol.
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