: Newbie - FAQ Discussion : Thanks Cosette, I was going to mention what you said.

stillrunnin 1747 reads

posted 11 years ago

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I'm new. getting checked thru dc. obviously vip on this site.

my problem... most of the providers that I'm considering ask for something like dc and ref.s from other providers. I understand why and am getting cleared thru dc and will look into p411...

but, will a higher end provider(300-500.00/ hour, well reviewed) consider me? the funds are np. I just don't want to have to start at the bottom and work-up just to get some cred... might be some great lower cost gals, but....

stillrunnin 353 reads

posted 11 years ago

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no ref.s

should have added that I kind of have specific tastes in what appeals to me in a provider. nothing strange or weird.... just like em trim, athletic built, age not a real issue, reviews and rep is!!! figure someone that's been providing, has good reviews, has experience to share and takes care of herself hygiene-wise. seems like just breathing is a risk these days...don't need to take any more chances than you have to... but location is because I'm kind a tied down to my work city and home even on the weekends. I live in a rural area, so popping out to walmart for an hour isn't an option. closest bigger city providers are an hour to an hour and a half away...

palomamontecarlo See my TER Reviews 317 reads

posted 11 years ago

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Joining a verification site is a great idea to start getting oks..

I think Date check could indicate that some ladies are newbie friendly, P411 definitely does.
I am sure a high end provider will consider you, provided that you furnish all the info that she requires for screening (it varies from lady to lady).

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stillrunnin 347 reads

posted 11 years ago

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Re: Hi there!

k. thx for the help!

i do not have a prob with additional info. esp.ly if providers has numerous reviews. her rep, personal safety, and satisfaction are easily as important as mine

this whole site has been a great help in how to get started!

keystonekid 114 Reviews 283 reads

posted 11 years ago

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For an individual provider or agency, only give out what information . . .

you are comfortable in being out there. If you work for the secret service, you might not want to disclose that.

For newbies, DC and P411 are good ways to go.

Back_In_Black 306 reads

posted 11 years ago

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suggest a dinner date if funds arent the issue .. it

can be that simple... no talk at all of any type of sex.. get a room in a nice hotel and ask the lady for dinner .. a decent dinner for two with wine 300 and cover her time so book a 3 hour im sure if your write well you will have no problem .. and throw in the date check also after the date ask her for some friends and if she will be your reference ... and since money is no problem that will be my standard 250.00 fee..lol good luck pal

Cosette 401 reads

posted 11 years ago

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I would have recommended you join P411, simply

because you can search for Newbie Friendly women. I get contacted a lot that way, it's almost like I've taken a TOFTT role in the opposite direction which is ok with me. Afterwards they have an ok and move on.

swimtrekr 58 Reviews 242 reads

posted 11 years ago

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Thanks Cosette, I was going to mention what you said.

For newbies, providers who indicate they are newbie friendly generally have a lighter method of screening. This makes it easier for guys to get started. DC does not give the girls that option of posting they are newbie friendly.

Swim

stillrunnin 324 reads

posted 11 years ago

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Re: suggest a dinner date if funds arent the issue .. it

k. that does make sense!

now if you'll kindly give me all of your personal info, i'll forward your fee!!