Get VIP membership if you don't have it already and read the reviews.  If she has a good number of reviews by established reviewers, she should be ok.  That is the best way to determine if a provider is good to visit.  If a provider has no reviews, stay away, until you have some experience in selecting.  Remember one thing, if she is a full-time, or for that matter, even part-time escort, she can ill afford to be passing on anything you don't want.  Don't worry about what other guys would do, worry about what you would do.  If you want to do everything covered, most providers will not object.  Most quality providers will not be doing bbfs anyway, although it's been said recently that bbfs happens more often than most people know.

As to your posts appearing, you are moderated, which means all your posts have to be approved by the moderator of the board you are posting on.  Once you have a sufficient number of posts showing you can follow the posting rules, you can ask your regional moderator to un-moderate you.  Once he does that, your posts will appear immediately after you submit them.

Swim

The topic of covered vs uncovered full service has recently been discussed ad nauseum.  You can do a search on all topics previously discussed. On the main page of this board and any board there will be a "search" tab. Open and follow the instructions. You can search by subject or person.  The time parameter is set at 30 days, you should change that to more days to do a more exhaustive search.

and not the kind you need to see a doctor for. Smart way of thinking and I go along with you 100%. This is an issue that has been hashed out all over TER and kind of lost it's luster. I think because your new and moderated the post got lost. One thing you learn on a board such as this everyone has their own opinions and many will fight you tooth and nail to convince you theirs is the right one. I like to read everyone's side as a learning curve and then use my head to find what works for me. Enjoy your time here and read all the boards to get a feel of the journey in store for you.

Kisses Haley

When I see a provider, every thing I do has to be covered. Once I was getting a HJ by a provider who used her spit as lube, and I made her stop.

I know everyone says providers are a lot safer then the average woman you'll meet at a party or in the store, but lets be real she has sex with men , and or women for a living. It's so much stuff you can get, I personally prefer just to rap it up even during blow jobs.

thing to consider. I think it's possible to vote more than once so the %'s could be skewed by that. I'll add what's been often said as well. With boyfriends, girlfriends, SO's and what have you BBFS is happening even if the provider doesn't do it with clients or if the client doesn't do it with providers. So cover up and the risk shouldn't be any more just because some are doing BBFS with providers.

That is not a scientific poll. Anyone with access to the internet can vote in that poll and can vote as often as they wish. The numbers have changed several times, and gave gone back and forth from the "no f'ing way" side to the "f yeah" side. Does bbfs happen? Certainly. Do some providers offer it? Certainly. Do some hobbyists ask for it? Certainly. Does it happen more often than we'd like to think? Possibly. However I find it hard to believe it is as widespread as the poll shows. If you read the comments on the gd board and regional boards, every time the topic comes up, there seems to be an overwhelming majority against it. In my own 30 years of hobbying (streetwalkers to massage girls to high end escorts), I haven't been offered it. In my opinion, I know it happens but i dont think it is as common as some people say or think it is, and all you can do anyway is weigh your own level of safety, risk, and reward.

First off, every provider you see has done it BB with someone in the last month, if only her civvie boyfriend, or girlfriend. So the answer is everyone.

Second, if you are really practicing safe sex, the incremental risk in seeing someone who has had BB sex with mutliple partners is not much at all.

I do get it your point, you just need to think it through a little more. When I know a provider is offering BBFS routinely, I am not likely to go see her. But I understand that is more an emotional than logical decision, so I do not worry about trying to figure out who is doing it and not saying.

zig