I am new around here an have only been in this hobby for about a year.   So far i have been to a few incall places and have not truly had a great experience.  After doing more research recently i learned about TER and p411.  Turns out ive been doing this the wrong way since i started.  Now im trying to get stablished but it seems like an uphill climb because it looks like the nost providers need references.   I am hoping for a good outcall experience ( ill feel safer and enjoy it more, my hotel) not incall as ive done them 5 times already and was too nervous/perinoid to truly enjoy myself.     Any suggestions?   Willing to travel anywhere in wisconsin, madison, milwaukee chicago and minniapolis.  Thanks