Newbie - FAQ

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kayjaykay 26 Reviews 1716 reads
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Still a bit of a newbie here, but could use some guidance. An out of town but well reviewed provider is making her first visit to Chi. I'm seeing her later this month. I'm excited. Is a 'welcome to our city' gift appropriate? If yes, any suggestions? Or, just pluck something from her wish-list? It's a multi-hour really early call. Should I be on the newbie board with this query?
Thanks.

swimtrekr 59 Reviews 407 reads
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2 / 8

not expected.  If you want to give her something, checking her wish list is a good idea.  Since she is traveling, esp if she is flying, a gift card would be best.  Have not had anyone turn down one to Victoria's Secret.

Swim

ziggy440 84 Reviews 337 reads
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I bring things on occasion, but generally try to make them something special or that we can share. For early morning dates I will usually offer to bring coffee (or maybe she likes fruit juice or chocolate milk), maybe a roll or some fruit if she would like. This could be especially appreciated as you have a longer date and will likely burn some energy.

I had a visiting Colombian provider and happen to know a good Colombian bakery, so I brought her some bunuelos and she was delighted, still remembers that every time we meet (though I do not bring them every time).

But the lady would most likely prefer a little extra $$$, rather than a gift.

zig

guybeingaguy 4 Reviews 332 reads
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I happen to pretty much always bring some kind of gift . I happen to actually think about the particular girl and tailor it around that .
Just as Ziggy had done with the Columbian lady. He also wrote that small gesture is still remembered to this day. Thats what I think is important ......Just some SMALL token from you means so much to a lady.
They are just wired differently and when a guy actually puts an effort towards her it is amplified 10 fold in her mind . A simple task with huge rewards.
I swear you buy her a leather purse she just happened to see one day , light a few candles and cook her dinner .............Guaranteed your gettin' laid !!! They are complex creature, but this seems to be a tried and true rule across the board with them .
I also do it to just say "thank you" from me personally. Sure the envelope pays her bills but I am TRULY thankful a beautiful lady will fuck my brains out and I just want her to know that it does mean something to me as a human being.
What's so hard to put some thought into a inexpensive token of your appreciation ? Seems simple enough to me and then to see that she remembers it each time you meet - no brainer for me.
Oh yeah , no gift cards .............The key is that you THOUGHT of something specifically tailored to her and her personality - Just like Ziggy's " columbian " tie into his gift.
Hand your girlfriend a birthday card with just cash in it and see how much pussy you get that night :)

macdaddy1944 51 Reviews 336 reads
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when she arrives..just give her a nice hard ride on your wagon..she will appreciate that the most..

kayjaykay 26 Reviews 339 reads
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6 / 8

for your thoughtful replies....great advice!

OhCharlie See my TER Reviews 314 reads
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7 / 8

I know this is a worthless post, but YES!!

I have a client that brings my favorite candy all the time. Sound stupid? Not at all. I get SO excited, because he thought about it and actually cared enough to go out of his way to find it. We pay a lot of attention to you guys. What you say, what you like, what makes you tick, so it's really, really refreshing when someone does the same for us, and we will remember :)

Posted By: guybeingaguy
I happen to pretty much always bring some kind of gift . I happen to actually think about the particular girl and tailor it around that .
Just as Ziggy had done with the Columbian lady. He also wrote that small gesture is still remembered to this day. Thats what I think is important ......Just some SMALL token from you means so much to a lady.
They are just wired differently and when a guy actually puts an effort towards her it is amplified 10 fold in her mind . A simple task with huge rewards.
I swear you buy her a leather purse she just happened to see one day , light a few candles and cook her dinner .............Guaranteed your gettin' laid !!! They are complex creature, but this seems to be a tried and true rule across the board with them .
I also do it to just say "thank you" from me personally. Sure the envelope pays her bills but I am TRULY thankful a beautiful lady will fuck my brains out and I just want her to know that it does mean something to me as a human being.
What's so hard to put some thought into a inexpensive token of your appreciation ? Seems simple enough to me and then to see that she remembers it each time you meet - no brainer for me.
Oh yeah , no gift cards .............The key is that you THOUGHT of something specifically tailored to her and her personality - Just like Ziggy's " columbian " tie into his gift.
Hand your girlfriend a birthday card with just cash in it and see how much pussy you get that night :)

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 353 reads
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8 / 8

something she likes, that fits, or for maybe for a family member. I can't tell you the times a guy's gift card came in handy when I needed something as simple as candles, towels, or lotions when I was out and about.

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