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Thanks for your insight everyone.

I've been hobbying for a few years now but I've got what is probably a "newbie" type question.  I don't travel much (and don't want outcall at home) and so, prefer incall.  I see a few providers who "tour" and post their schedules.

My problem is that many providers who advertise incall do not post schedules (or their calandars are empty).  I've tried sending polite inquiries to a couple of them asking if they toured in my area or if an incall could be arranged.  I got no response from either.  Bad luck perhaps?  I'm fairly sure I avoided all the standard "Don'ts" and made plain that I was flexible in scheduling.

I can understand if a provider would not want to setup an incall for just one (short) appointment, though I'd be surprised if none of them simply toured without advertising their schedule.

What's the procedure here?  Should I offer to reinburse her for the room or should I (politely) ask for her schedule?  I don't want to risk coming across as a creep, LE or whathaveyou.

I think it's time I broaden my horizons.  Any advice would be appreciated.  Thanks.

One of the more frustrating parts to me....some proivders keep their sites updated every day and are very accurate and some create a site and never update it.  Same with ad's posted on here...I can't tell you how many times I see an ad posted and no city is ever mentioned.

I've sent email to touring providers coming to my state asking them if they'll be visiting my city.  All but one have responded in maybe 8 or 10 inquiries?

You win some, you miss some.  I used to get frustrated when I'd miss a hot lady that didn't make it to my town.  Or even worse, they did come here but I wasn't available on the dates they were here.  Now I just tell myself "There'll be another one soon."

a touring lady or a local one.  If she is touring, she will post her schedule somewhere, either on her website, her ad on here, or maybe on a site like DateCheck on her profile, many do that.  A touring provider will want to be sure she has sufficient bookings to cover her expenses and make some profit, otherwise, why go there?  Many have canceled visits to cities as they did not get enough interest to make it worth their while to go there.  From what you describe, it doesn't sound like you did anything wrong.  I'd just chalk it up to bad luck and move on, but I see nothing wrong in asking for her schedule.

If she is local, there are some possibilities. If she has a permanent incall, problem solved.  If she has to book a room, like the touring lady, she is not likely to do it for just one client, although I have had that happen to me, I was the only date for her.  That, I don't think, is a common occurrence since it doesn't give her much of a profit for the day.  If you really want to see a particular lady who is local, you could offer to book the room, but DO NOT, under any circumstances, leave her to use the room for other dates.  You're stuck for the bill.

You don't mention your location, but I'd look for more local gals with established incall setups.  Many will get a hotel room for a couple days every so often to do incalls.  Touring gals are often a crapshoot for them actually making to your city, for the reasons mentioned above.

Good luck,
Swim

...sector profession, or a gentleman has requested I visit his city, and reserved a minimum of three hours.  If a gentleman requests that I visit him, in say Omaha, and would like to schedule three hours, I will pick up my own airfare, and hotel.  I will, however, with his knowledge, stay an extra day to entertain, and yes post.  He, however, will be my first date.  It's a win win, becuase I am going to a new city, and basically having my expenses covered, plus making a bit extra.  

  Another example.  I will be in Philly this week; scheduled to leave Thursday afternoon.  Now, if a Philly gent wants a two hour plus evening date, I will stay an extra day.  On the other hand, if a gentleman back in DC wants a lunch date that Thursday, and I have nothing going on in Philly, I will head back to DC.

  I sure hope I made some sense!

Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly

Thanks for your insight everyone.

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