Hello everyone! This is my very first post here, and I do not know who will see it and who will be answering. I am fairly new to this whole "Hobbyist/Provider" universe. I am looking for my first real "date/experience". I am 56 and disabled, using a wheelchair (but not paralyzed)
A provider I really want to see has a website with a form to fill out. It requires TWO references from previous providers and current Employment information.
Obviously I don't have any provider references.....how can I get provider references until I actually see my first provider? The ironic thing is, the provider with the website form that I REALLY want to see NOW (or in the near future), who is requiring two provider references.....she sounds like someone I would never want to leave once I started seeing her, especially if all 137 reviews about her are true. I am not looking to sample every single dish in this smorgasboard/buffet of GFE escorts, that's just not me. I am willing to meet up with her in public, be frisked, polygraphed, whacked with a rubber hose, have my wheelchair sniffed by a police K-9, you name it.
I am as safe as safe can be.....and here is the real kicker. I understand FULLY the need for the provider's security and safety, I really truly do especially in this day and age; but that cuts both ways......If anything I am the vulnerable one in this scenario, I cannot run away, chase after someone, and my wheelchair is absurdly expensive (thanks to the medical-Industrial complex in this country.)
Help, and advice?
P411 is a a screening site that will connect you with "newbie-friendly" girls. You will need to provide them with some personal information (and there have been many debates about whether they can be trusted, but I have yet to see any evidence they cannot be). Then you can do a search for "newbie-friendly" girls. See a few of them and you have references to see other girls. It's worked for a long time.
You laid out your case to us and now tell her your situation.
Not knowing who you’re contacting but base on her 137 reviews it seems she wound get you and would understand your situation.
Welcome to the dark side and good to know you’re going with a experience lady.
I hope she’s mature enough to get you going
Good luck
Thank you both very much for your advice, I learned a lot from both of you. I pretty much did lay it out on the Website form she has (after first mistakenly sending her my info via email.) I simply might be trying too hard...anyway I found another provider right here in MASSACHUSETTS (different but essentially a "clone" of the first one I really wanted, who was or is based in NJ & Philly.)
I'd love to mention the name of this second one I found, she seems really awesome as we have communicated a bit the past several days, and she is just down the turnpike here in Massachusetts. Next weekend looks promising for our first date. After that, depending on how that goes, I will have my first reference!
Again, thank you both very much for your help
