There is a provider that I tried to initiate contact with via the number listed here.  My message stated "Is this *insert name*?" and she replied, "No?".  Is it possible that it was her and that I went about it the wrong way.  Any insight and if so is there a reasonable way to correct this?  Thanks.

Take this fine young lady for example... I bet she will make you forget all about whatever was troubling you...

I would not text a provider unless she indicated either in an ad or on her website that texting was OK.  I agree with the senator, move on, and make contact the way the provider prescribes.

and providers retire and take breaks. If she has recent reviews you can PM her reviewers to see if they have any intel on her or do as the senator said and move on.

My preference is an introduction by email.  
I can be a softy and I'm not real thick skinned.... Some guys can be harsh, belittling, and enjoy haggling, which I do not enjoy. Text messages- never gonna happen for a first communication. How do I know you aren't a mad killer or LE?
So, I ask someone new to me, to please email me with a bit of info. We can talk from there.
If we have met before, I am happy to talk or text with you on the phone!