One hint I would like to pass along to those attempting to get recommends on multiple systems (P411, TER, DateCheck, etc).

Find a girl who is  a member of multiple sites.

One visit with her can get you in on several sites at once, just ask her nicely if she would be willing to do a few extra moments of computer work on your behalf.

Whenever I stumble upon yet another "client verification" scheme, I search through for providers I have already met. Some places even give free trial memberships to clients already qualified.

As far as acting casual at the incall, I suggest actually calling as you are five minutes out. That way there is no waiting around. Or I pull into a gas station, office complex or whatever a block away to make the call. That way I just park and go, no awkward "how do I make myself look casual" wandering around.

-tessen

Really not sure what you're trying to convey here.  

1. Getting Recommended:  P411 has a 'Request Provider OK' option, so after seeing a provider you can logon on to P411 and send the request to her.  This isn't complicated.

As far as asking a provider to give you multiple oks on multiple sites:  Dude, she's not your secretary & you're really asking for trouble.  I can see a provider rolling her eyes as soon as you walk out the door.  Don't do it.  Be a trouble-free client and you will be rewarded later.  

2. Acting casual:  You're right, wandering around in a hotel lobby waiting for a room number is a bad idea,  Thirty minutes before an incall, I look for a coffee shop or book store near the hotel and make the 2nd call from there. I don't walk into a hotel till I have the room number.  --z

I agree with find the location then back track to the coffee shop.  I time the minutes needed to return.  I call about 1 minute before the hour.
I have tried calling from the coffee shop or other location than the location.  On some occasions, the lady has said "I can't see you" or "What color is your car?" as they were able to view the entrance.  Don't be surprized if this happens occasionally & be ready to go.
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One lady I know provides a detailed set of first-visit instructions. This is partly a test of your ability to read and follow instructions. Loosely interpreting her rule about the time and place of your call may result in disappointment on your part.

Ok Nick, you just opened up another can of worms.  I thought Tessen was imposing on providers; but you're way too submissive.  Any provider that plays 'treasure hunt' to test my ability to do anything is going to get canceled on.  

Don't let anyone play you like that.  There's lots of providers out there who  don't play games.  Don't waste your time on those who do.  Take care,  --z

It's not so much a 'treasure hunt' as it is detailed requests for how and when to contact me, and other protocol.  Every little detail has it's important reason for me... and beyond that, it lets me know if a gent is respectful enough to listen to what I request and willing to do as I ask.  If he's not willing to listen and to do what I need to be comfortable in advance - I do NOT want to meet him face to face.  For some of us, screening goes well beyond having another lady saying "he's ok."

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