Would be curious to get other members' feedback/thoughts on the following...

The process of looking for the first time at filling out a review of a provider raises at least three questions for me...

(1) When submitting a review, it seems like I can't simply specify the TER# of the provider, is that right?  Even if she has a profile on here on TER already and has some reviews, the "submit a review" process seems to require me to start "from scratch" in that it requires me to enter her name, number, website, etc., all as if she's not already in the system... Is there no way to simply click on her profile page to go directly to submitting a review *of her*?

(2) The "submit a review" screen seems to require me to answer several dozen questions about her many of which I don't necessarily know the answers to, and "don't know" is not a drop-down menu selection for many of those questions.  Again, as above, it seems like the process requires me to submit data for virtually every single field in her profile, as if she were not already in the system.  I don't know, don't want to guess or in some cases don't really want to state whether I know, the answers to some of those questions.  I didn't try leaving them blank and submitting them anyway, because it says they are required.... is that how to "pass" on answering things I didn't ask, don't care about, or don't want to answer?

(3) Kinda similar to the item above, when it comes down to it, due to a couple questions in particular, the fields in the "submit a review" screen would appear to call upon the member to memorialize in (electronic) writing that he saw a provider, that he paid her (and how much), and that she did some specific things.  That seems... awkward.   Could the money question not be left out of this...?  We all know and agree that the narratives of the hypothetical meeting are, by the website TOS, acknowledged and agreed to be be works of fiction for entertainment purposes only... but to have some of those specific drop-downs and line-item fields above the narrative sections in the review process put a fine point on those same most delicate plot elements... creating a data record of that whole overall set of responses beyond just the "story"?  Isn't that uncomfortable?

1. Unfortunately, we all have to go thru the motions of answering all the questions all over again even though they will not change the lady's profile.  Pain in the ass, yes, but that's the way it works.

2. Basically, same answer.  If you did not experience a particular item with her, just put I don't know, because you don't really know if it's available.

3.  If it makes you that uncomfortable, don't write the review.  Remember, there have been thousands of reviews written by thousands of guys, including me.  If you want to take advantage of the free VIP days, you will have to overcome your apprehension about certain details and just put it down.  You are writing a story, not signing your life away.  After all, it is a work of 'fiction', is it not?

Just relax, and enjoy reliving your fictional interlude and tell us about it.

Swim

-- Modified on 2/22/2009 8:57:23 AM

To answer your first 2 questions it is a pain to fill in each and every blank, especially since they are not going to change her profile unless you later submit a problem report. I can't remember or know all details like height, exact bra size, etc. so I just usually open another page and copy from her existing profile.

But if you can't remember how much you paid or what you did, maybe you shouldn't write a review.

1.  Would make a great suggestion for TER.  But the rest of the answers are already spot on - it sucks, but ya gotta do it.  

2.  I'm with you on this one.  

As an example - Under Service Information - S&M available has a drop down box that offers the choices yes or no.  Many times this issue never even comes up when booking an appointment.  If the ladies ad or website does not indicate the availability of S&M and I do not partake in S&M on the date, I check no.  In the next box of information under Actual Services Provided they will ask again whether S&M is offered and you can say I don't know.    

Another example under Session information is the "SMOKES" drop down.  Most times - I have no idea if she smokes!  If she didn't smoke, you don't smell it and it didn't come up in coversation  - then say no. If she says she smokes, then you can say yes but not during session.  

Keep in mind that a ladies profile is a compilation of all her reviews.  The staff at TER is going to combine your information with that from other reviews.      

3.  Yeah, putting down these details along with your fictional story sucks.  I hate it too.  Bite the bullet or don't write a review.