After a failed hobby attempt many moons ago (my fault, was too nervous to...act) I was thinking of trying again. I know discussion of sexual acts is strictly forbidden when contacting a provider, but what about a clothing request? For example, if I would like the provider to look as natural as possible (easy on the makeup, wear a nice sundress, with a sexy pair of heels). Would discussing this be out of line as well? Or, being a newbie, am I simply asking too much for a first time?