How do I find out if a provider is willing to use a strap-on on me? If I ask in an e-mail, what is the secret code?  

Thanks

As far as I know there is no secert code.  Get to know them a bit and then ask would be my suggestion.

You will find many if not most BDSM providers love to play with strap-ons. You will find them in the reviews and on the websites. Have fun.

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Everyone has there own thing. That's why they are available. I'm not sure what a flame is, but this must be it. james86 should be taken off TER.

Strap ons are erotic and feel good with a good provider.  You need to go to one that specializes in S&M / Fetish.

Sorry...my bad

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thirsty

I lucked out in my experiences with it.

I WILL tell you this, bring your own - do not ask her to, or mention it. Can't say much more here publicly, but you may get the phone slammed down on you mentioning 'toys' PERIOD!

And, no, you don't have to look for a S&M or fetish lady to supply this experience. Most of the ladies I know will oblige.
Hopefully, your body has been thoroughly emptied out and cleaned in preparation first. Otherwise, the answer is NO!