Just a thought that the OP wasn't really, seriously, suggesting scheduling 3 appointments. He's just concerned about the specific day and doesn't realize that he can contact several providers and ask availability without necessarily setting up an appointment.
Ill be ready in June for my first and have a list of 4 women who are just right. They are well reviewed, recommended, and classy like myself
I have a free day that i can get away from my girl and the time-of-day to see the provider is not important to me but what about to her? Is it better to have this call done earlier to prevent a tired-out worker or worse, in a bad mood from her last XX number of calls.
Also, I have this feeling that the way this game works; im likely not going to get any of these 3 girls to be available to me. Im only looking for incall independents ready to do greek, and im very specific about this. I dont want to ruin this meeting but i also cant schedule a meet with 3 women and hope 2 cancel on me. I dont want to mess a working ladies schedule by making 3 appointments and only going to 1. I only have this one free day and if i miss my chance ill have to wait another 3 weeks before i can get a good free day again without making me look suspect.
If you've picked four ladies then pick one (probably the one you'd most like to see) and contact her already. If they're well-reviewed and you're a newb you need extra time to get screened and make sure that you can get a time before they get booked up (which is likely to happen with a good provider). It's also good to start early since your odds are less since you don't have references.
DO NOT set up an appointment with a lady then go on to set up another one as a "backup". That's rude and WILL get you blacklisted and labeled as a flake if found out. It's okay to contact different ladies to see if they're available but once you have a date it's not cool to set up another just as insurance.
As for time, my philosophy is that I pick what I like from what times she has available. Trying to anticipate when the provider is "at her best" is a crapshoot since there are a lot of variables. I've had mind-blowing morning appointments as well afternoon, evening, and late-night ones. I've seen some great providers who've amply demonstrated that no matter what the time a good lady will rise to the occasion...and make sure you do as well lol!
If you've done good homework the odds are very unlikely 2 or 3 will CX on you or NCNS. Don't be so pessimistic. Do their reviews hint they are unreliable?
Contact your 1st choice early. Let her know you have a limited window (one day).
Time of day, ask her. Not all providers lounge around all day waiting for your appointment. Many have regular day jobs. Some have other evening obligations.
With no refs DON'T ask her about Greek while setting up the apointment. Thaks what reviews are for.
Good luck.
I will reinforce the previous comments. Get screened ASAP and do not double-book.
As to best time, I have found that different times are preferable for different ladies, and only multiple appointments with a lady will clue you in to her personal time preferences. Some are fresher in the morning. Some are really not morning people. I have found that many ladies are most relaxed and personable for the last appointment of the day. If she is comfortable with you, she may not be in a rush to
...keep the appointment moving along. Damn Bill Gates!
will manage their appointments, and themselves to (usually) provide a fairly consistent experience.
You can usually glean some 411 on this from her reviews.
Being new myself I first got verified by Date-Check and P411 since I knew there would be no references. I had my my homework and knew who I sought to contac but first wanted to make it easy on her. Then I contacted her via her contact form on her web-page and she knows I am newbie and I her reviews state she accepts newbies.
Mine thing is I gave her about 6 days to verify me and then get in touch with me. Being new I knew would take time to verify plus with a holiday weekend that might slow it down more.
How incredibly arrogant & disrespectful of you to even consider what you have in mind! You are obviously a newbie! Go ahead & follow through w/ such an idea & find yourself "spanking the monkey" in the shower more frequently. See you on the black list!
Take your worthless blacklist banter to the GD board.
Reread his post slowly so you can comprehend it.
Woah, ease up with those claws. I certainly didn't read that he intends to book an appointment with all three ladies.
What I got out of reading his post is that he has done a fine job of reading this board, and doing his research. Now he's identified three possibiilities, and is looking for advice on how to proceed with booking. Nothing at all wrong with that. Looks like he's going about things the right way (how refreshing!). I wish all gentlemen were as thorough in their research as he seems to be.
And there is nothing in the world wrong with selecting a lady, while at the same time also having a few ladies in mind as 'back up' just in case the first one falls through. Actually booking all three ladies is crossing the line, but that isn't what he's talking about here.
Just a thought that the OP wasn't really, seriously, suggesting scheduling 3 appointments. He's just concerned about the specific day and doesn't realize that he can contact several providers and ask availability without necessarily setting up an appointment.
First, make contact with your first choice ASAP. If she is a well reviewed lady she will know how to verify a newbie. Do not schedule more than one date and be in the position to cancel because you "have to make a choice". That's just rude period. Make sure Greek is on the menu per her TER reviews. Remember, Greek lessons are at the discretion of the provider. How you treat her will weigh heavily. I too love Greek tours and can tell you from experience that Greek may be off the menu at certain times. Respect her wishes if she can't provide a Greek tour on your first date. Explore all the other fine attributes she will offer and I guarantee she will be ready the next time you see her since she will know what you're looking for.
Schedule a 2 hour for your first session. This will give the two of you time to break the ice. She will appreciate the extra time with you and you'll be glad you did too. I would ask her to be her first appointment. If she is a well reviewed lady your appointment just may be her only one for the day.
Also, if she "knocks your socks off' and you plan on seeing her again, make sure you tip her. Tipping is always remembered and appreciated. You'll be surprised on how well your future visits with her will be.
Good luck, play safe and treat the ladies with the respect they deserve and you'll be just fine.
SR