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Darkforce35 1905 reads
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Okay so here is my problem, now I'm still really new to this whole business but am really falling fast for it. So I have been with one escort on this site and after didn't really write anything about it. If you know me, I really don't like to talk about my experience and to me it just awkward for me but anyways moving on. I always research before actually following through to make sure that I'm getting good service and not played. When find other escorts that I really would like to meet but then need preference from other escort. Now given the fact that I have only been with 1 escort so far and have asked her nicely to see if she will be one of my referral. Now she said that she would be happy to be a referral on my account but has not done it yet and I do not want to be a pest about it. How can I show other escort that I'm safe meaning will not contact unless I am will to proceed if contacted or a setup. What do I do? Any answer will be of help, thanks.

swimtrekr429 reads

I suggest you contact her and ask directly for her to whitelist you, assuming she's a member of TER.  If she isn't, all she can do is vouch for you when contacted by another escort.

Swim

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fwlf397 reads

Sorry for my ignorance, but I am also a newbie, can someone explain what is the whitelist and where would I find it? Is it on my profile or on the provider's? Then in the future, how do I direct others to it? Thank you!

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fwlf350 reads

Thank you GaGambler!

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GaGambler340 reads

Not to discount the women's POV, but I know sometimes a newbie wants a simple answer to a simple question and not a lecture from a hooker attempting to indoctrinate him on how to play this game "her way".

Don't worry, there are always enough veterans here, both men and women, that you can usually get a range of opinions on any given subject. The only thing we ask in return is that once you have enough experience, but please not before, just do your part to guide the newbies that follow you here.

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MatureGFE391 reads

And some of us ladies do whitelist on a case my case basis! And please keep participating here, there lots a great answers to be found here! ;-)

xoxo,

Steph

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handytohave60357 reads

I asked a provider to Whitelist me and she said she couldn't because she was not VIP. Does she need to be VIP?

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MatureGFE277 reads

I suggest that you strongly consider joining a verification site like P411. Also the lady you saw said she'd give you a reference (referral). That means when you decide to contact another lady to book with her, that then you use your first lady as the reference. The new provider you are trying to book with will then (hopefully) contact the original provider.

Whitelisting is not the same thing as providing a reference when contacted. Many ladies use it as one of several ways to verify a potential client!

Have fun and be safe!

xoxo,

Steph

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