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MarkusKetterman 150 Reviews 1220 reads
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in my experience, given that I have been hobbying in one form or another for decades, daty and bbbj are very low risk for the client.

You can choose to hobby any way you want as long as the lady du jour is willing. If you want to do covered "full service" (the provider acroynm for hiding the samali) only be my guest.

I would observe however that this sport is not well suited to the squeamish or faint of heart....

regardless of your choices, if you're going to play this game I would advise that you get tested regularly. Odds are you will be fine, but it pays to keep tabs. Only YOU can take responsibility for your health and for passing something along to others....

I use and recommend tSTD org for fast, reliable, inexpensive and anonymous STD panel testing.

Related Link: http://www.sfcityclinic.org/stdbasics/stdchart.asp

Retrojoke2483 reads

I am new and havent had a provider experience yet. I have been reading many reviews of women in my area and i have discovered one thing that concerns me. Almost ever review of a provider (with quantity reviews) speaks of men with mouth on body parts of providers that i wouldnt find to be the safest way to be safe.
It is very important to wear a cover to prevent something bad from happening but isnt having a mouth on a V&A dangerous & risky also?

I only know that i spent a year in Korea as a soldier and during that time we had many visual classess on men who had gotten sick from playing with night walkers and a few of those visuals involved facial sores.


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mrfisher1238 reads

but it is a whole lot less than uncovered intercourse.

There are many threads on this that you can look up and read more about it, including links to the CDD site that has statistics on STD transmission via oral sex.

Facial sores are often a sympton of herpes, which can be transmitted orally.  Do not engage in unsafe sex with someone with such sores.

We each need to find our own comfort zone regarding STDs, and then stay within those bounds.

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hiddenhills934 reads

Hobby at your own comfort level. If you're concerned, then don't daty, only partake in cbj,
and no dfk/lfk.  Now what fun would the hobby be?

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MarkusKetterman1221 reads

in my experience, given that I have been hobbying in one form or another for decades, daty and bbbj are very low risk for the client.

You can choose to hobby any way you want as long as the lady du jour is willing. If you want to do covered "full service" (the provider acroynm for hiding the samali) only be my guest.

I would observe however that this sport is not well suited to the squeamish or faint of heart....

regardless of your choices, if you're going to play this game I would advise that you get tested regularly. Odds are you will be fine, but it pays to keep tabs. Only YOU can take responsibility for your health and for passing something along to others....

I use and recommend tSTD org for fast, reliable, inexpensive and anonymous STD panel testing.

Related Link: http://www.sfcityclinic.org/stdbasics/stdchart.asp

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hound_dog69961 reads

the ladies running around when you were in Korea...

The ladies here do not partake of the risky activities (oral has limited, but not non-existent, risks), and get tested regularly.

The ladies in some countries are walking time bombs and shouldn't be touched even with a cover.

Not to mention the army is big on playing bid daddy and scaring you with training films.

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MarkusKetterman1372 reads

as well as many other garden spots to which Uncle Sammy deposited my sweet butt over the course of a lengthy military career.

And if you know what "girlfriend experience" meant back in the day, you get my drift....

I have not found the "third world" to be at all dangerous with respect to the transmission of STDs, any more so than Europe and the US.

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johngaltnh873 reads

I specifically recommend some lube on the provider side of some Saran Wrap for DATY.

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WTFisUP987 reads

or Saran Wrap, I'd be giving my first CBJ, that's for sure and I'd pass on DATY completely.

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johngaltnh767 reads

Naturally, I would expect that anyone who brought saran wrap would ALSO be expecting a covered BJ.

:-)

I've only used a dental dam once in my life. It was because I had promised the receptionist at a local business that I'd go down on her. (She was a lady who just couldn't get dates; and I just thought it would be wrong for her to live her life without ever having had a guy go down on her.)

She came over but when she took off the panties ... oh my. This was a lady who wiped back to front instead of front to back. No WAY was my tongue going there. Gross.

Well, a promise is a promise. I explained that the Saran Wrap was for her protection against getting anything from the last lady I had seen; and went to town.

She DID enjoy that immensely for, I'm sure, psychological more than physical reasons. And I'm glad I did it as it gave her some confidence, she started dressing better, etc. Hopefully at some point she learned some hygiene basics too.

But -- yeah, I dig what you are saying. Can't say I blame you.

:-)

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Retrojoke1125 reads

Thanks for the feedback.

I am worried that lack of going down could create a less than standard service from an displeased provider.

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fallonkelly815 reads

Sure I would totally love it if you did go down, but different people have different preferences.  It's your time, and your dime and if you don't want to go down, I certainly can't require it!  

Just like a tip, DATY is always appreciated, but never expected!

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