Hi there.  okay, so nothing in this world is 100% safe, I understand that.

Condoms can break, or be tampered with, etc.

So, hobby 101?  Does it say that when a hobbyist and a provider are together, they use a condom?  Is this to protect from population growth, or contamination? (pregnant, or disease?)

I figured it's for both.  Probably more for disease, as my guess that most are on proper birth control, if that's their desire.

So, that leads me to my question.

dfk, daty, bbbj, all of these full-contact sports...  they seem more popular than I would have expected.  Is there less danger from these?

Sorry if this sounds a bit.. naive.

Thanks,
Clwb

but nobody is really looking to father a kid this way either.

As for the other oral risks you cite, if you go to The Erotic Highway Board, the Love Goddess just recently posted a site wherein you can study all the various statistics related to risk from these practices.

The bottom line is:  The risk is much lower, but not zero.  

We all make our beds, and then sleep in them.

but note that although the list of possible infections associated with a given activity are presented, the *incidence* or likelihood of infection is not established.

Estimates of incidence of risk or probablility density of infection per particular act vary widely.

Everything in life has risks. You have to make a risk / benefits decision you are comfortable with.

Bottom line: if you're going to play this game plan on getting tested reguarly. Only YOU can be responsible for your health, and for not becoming a disease vector.

What does that mean exactly?  The only way to be 100% safe is to not do it.  That includes both in this biz and in your personal life.

nothing is 100% safe except abstinence.  However, I don't see girls that are not GFE.  I love kissing, and if the girl won't do it, or BBBJ, I don't see her.  I also love DATY, but that is not a deal-breaker.

If she does not do DFK or BBBJ, she does not see me.

Swim