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hiddenhills 143 Reviews 1926 reads
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It's almost impossible for us to pick one provider out for you. Here' s why, do you like blondes, red heads, brunettes ?  Natural tits or man made? Spinners or something a little thicker? BBBJ or CBJ.  You get the idea.
All of us were newbs once, and no one held our hand, it's really  a DYI hobby.  My suggestion, figure exactly the type of lady that really gets to you.  Then check her menu out so you can enjoy your time with her.  Of course you need to be a VIP member to really get the benefit of TER. Good luck!

REDMSC692122 reads

I am looking for suggestions on the perfect provider (milf or cougar) for a newbie.  The more I search the more confused I get.  Just too many options.  I want my first experience to be a memorable one. Also, if it is possible, an explanation why would help. Need help

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hiddenhills1927 reads

It's almost impossible for us to pick one provider out for you. Here' s why, do you like blondes, red heads, brunettes ?  Natural tits or man made? Spinners or something a little thicker? BBBJ or CBJ.  You get the idea.
All of us were newbs once, and no one held our hand, it's really  a DYI hobby.  My suggestion, figure exactly the type of lady that really gets to you.  Then check her menu out so you can enjoy your time with her.  Of course you need to be a VIP member to really get the benefit of TER. Good luck!

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King_Hump855 reads

My suggestions are as follows

Get a TER VIP account.

Use the TER search engine, cut out ages that are younger than 25. There are some younger that 25 years MILFs, but they seem to becoming rarer. Since you want a cougar, 40 or above should be your range.

During the search, set looks and performance levels that you are seeking. Don't look at any provider that does not meet your requirement.

Pick a small list of providers that make you hot. From that list will come your first paid encounter.

Start contacting the providers in the order of your #1 choice to your last choice. If the providers have websites, go there and read everything on the site BEFORE contacting the providers, some or all of your questions may get answered.

You are going to be nervous if you use the phone, email first contact is best if an email address is provided. Give each provider three days to reply back to you, move on if one has not responded back in that time. Avoid explicit language, treat the email communication as a business communication.

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harborview1073 reads

say +/- 30.  Well reviewed.  Old enough to be very good at what they do, young enough to be a hottie.  For a lot of women, I consider this to be in their prime.  
In my limited experience, the youngest provider set expect a guy to be push button.  Just nerves can upset that.  A lady who has a bit of maturity to calm you down can make a difference.  
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CarmenSinclair1626 reads

This term MILF gets thrown around sooo much lately.

Does a provider (such as myself) who's just over 30 with NO children hold the same appeal as a MILF ("Mom I'd Like to Fuck") provider?

Being over 30 and well-educated, I have a level of experience and maturity that much younger providers lack. But I never advertise as "MILF" because I am not a mother. Am I missing out on certain clients that look for more experienced/mature providers because of this?

Does it matter that I am not a MILF even though I am in a similar age bracket as some of the MILFs out there?

*Kisses*

~ Carmen Sinclair

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Dr Who revived801 reads

I have played with gals that if having a child was necessary to be a MILF, this gal would have qualified at 16 y/o.  And I suspect she is far from the only lady out here that had a child at a VERY young age.

Just as the discussion on what a GFE, PSE gal is, the overall perception is all that really matters.  And typically guys will see a MILF when she is more mature.  And each guy would have his own definition of more mature.  In my example, was this 16 y/o gal a MILF?  Not in the context that most guys think of.  Frankly, gals in their teens and 20's are rarely thought of as a MILF...even tho many have kids.

And just remember, you can be whomever you would like to be.  So if you want to be Carmen with 2 kids when we meet...and you're 30-35...I would consider you a MILF...especially if that is how you want to advertise yourself.

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perfectstorm777 reads

If I saw yours, before I typed mine, I wouldn't have posted. You are saying pretty much the same thing, and in some ways I think you said it better.

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CarmenSinclair1309 reads

that it's more an acronym thing. Swap "Mother" with "Mature", I guess.

That being said, being in my early 30s is awesome. That thing about women hitting their sexual peak then is SO TRUE.

And NOT having children is how I prefer to be... so that works out pretty well for me too. (I have 3 dogs, and that's ALL the responsibility I need, thank you very much!) =)

*KISS!*

- Carmen Sinclair

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perfectstorm854 reads

I think MILF is becoming another GFE/PSE type thing. The acronym means different things to different people, and there will probably never be agreement. Technically it should mean Mother, but I bet many people consider it "mature." I mean an 18 year old teen mom coud be a milf, but would she advertise as that? Or would she even apeal to MILF lovers? Probably not.

As for your advertising, you might be missing out on certain clients, but if you change your ad to say you are a milf, you might miss out on other clients, or chase away some. Six of one, half a dozen of the other:) I can't say what will work better for you, but there are a lot of guys out there who don't want milfs too.

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aopen69655 reads

Good Lord a newbie or an experienced hobbiest would be stupid to over look you.....just saying.  Too bad I don't live in FL.

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ziggy4401586 reads

My first provider was wonderful, miraculous and amazing. Not so much for the sex, as because here was this beautiful woman, welcoming me in and then doing her best to please me, make me feel very good. I was scared, too, about all of the bad things that could happen, and none of them did, so there was a lot of relief.

I was nervous as hell, confused about what was going on, and while it felt good, it was nowhere near as enjoyable as my 7th or 8th provider, aside from the intense rush of doing it.

So, find a well-reviewed, well-established provider who looks interesting, do not worry about whether or not she is the perfect one, and pop your cherry, man. Then you can decide whether you want to go back, or try someone else. For me it was like the first time I had sex - a lot of new stuff to sort through before I could figure out what I really wanted and really liked, which changed anyway.

No matter who you pick, the experience and woman will be memorable. But the confusion you are feeling is because you are spending too much time thinking about it, worrying about who the perfect provider will be.

Anyway, once you settle on the perfect provider, you will find out she is not doing newbies, so best not to get attached to any one provider. Lots of lovely women, eager to make you happy.

zig

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11929671783 reads

I won't disagree with what the others have said because all of them have given good advice but I have to agree that what you have said is probably the best way to go about it. Find some providers and go for it. As long as they fit the general parameters of looks and services just go see one and enjoy.

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Mars621129 reads

Go to a ranch in Nevada. Some are close to the Reno airport.

Do your research, and pick a lady. Because it is legal, you won't have LE, cash and dash, etc. to worry about.

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