I've never contacted an escort, and I'm trying to figure out what I can/can't say in my first email.
The reason I'm asking is that my personal turn-on is tickling. That's what I want to do during our time together: tickle her. Not fs, or bbbj. If the escort I email isn't ticklish, or isn't willing to let me tickle her for our session time, then it won't be fun for either of us.
Everything I've read warns you not to be blatant about what you're looking for (eg don't say "I want to pay you for sex"). But I really have to ask this question before meeting them: someone could be not ticklish at all.
I'm thinking of saying something like:
Dear xxxxxx, I found about you from your website at www.blah.com. I'm interested in tickling you. What I propose is me tickling you on your upper body, hips and behind your knees. I need to know if this is ok with you. If not, just let me know. Clothing and anything else can be negotiated later. Also is tipping necessary?
Too shy, too blatant, too anything? I'm just unsure how to ask this without getting ignored for being explicit. If I were just going for a typical session, I'd just say "I saw you at blah and would like to see you on Monday", but I really have to ask her.
Tickling is not a bad request, providers do not want to discuss explicit requests. Start off like you did, then tell her about you and references if you have any, then at the end just say I have one request, do you mind tickling, I really like that, don't have to go into all the details about it. She will let you know, I think most would be ok with or like that.
Regarding tickling, the other poster said it best: I have one request, do you mind tickling?
The part about clothing, I would not add that. The word 'negotiate' is not a good one to use. Why are you asking her if tipping is necessary? It makes you sound cheap. If you are wondering if she is upselling, you can ask if her rates are flat but only if her website is not clear. If you ask her a question that is already on her site, especially one about rates, she may get cranky.
I agree with her suggestions and would only add that I am leery of any email that initiates contact and refers to specific body parts. It is also advisable to include some personal information about yourself such as your employment and a contact number (*with a preferred time to contact if that is necessary*) ~I know you are probably shaking your head right now... but any reputable provider will want to establish a comfort level before she discusses anything. (*Just mention you have a preference for tickling, established providers will know what you mean without details*).... Have fun, and know your providers reputation... kisses ~Tori
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