The lesson should be to read her reviews carefully, and do all the research you can. Regarding price, although you shouldn't make bargain hunting a priority, realize that no price or rating alone will guarantee a good experience.
Your review seems quite fair to me. However, I wouldn't use her as a reference. Doesn't reflect well on you for those providers who would actually check her out.
I'd been hedging for months on meeting my first provider. I finally decided to make a quick half hour appointment of a decently reviewed girl. So, I get there and am nervous as hell. The place is a wreck with toys all over the place. Then I notice her teeth! OMG, made me wonder what drugs she was on. She proceeds to get comfortable and has stretch marks all over her. I almost ended it there but, didn't want to insult her. Then I find out we're confined to the couch. I'm ok with that so I get comfortable and she's giving one of the best BBBJ's I've ever had in my life when I decide to suite up. NO CONDOMS!!! Are you kidding me?!?! It wasn't a total waste but not what I wanted my first hobby experience to be like. I'm not sure I'm going to repeat this hobby experiment after this.
Any other first time horror stories out there? I'd love to hear them in the hopes of making myself feel better lol
FYI - I will write a review tomorrow. I need to think about this a bit lol
I would have a hard time walking out, too, but that's what you should have done if she was that much different from her pix. It is your right and it could help other guys if she's a real B&S. As for no condoms, I don't carry them either but many mongers do.
Finally, and it's only a guess, this sounds like a fairly cheap Backpage gal. Did she have reviews? If not, your bad for going as a newbie with an unreviewed provider. Your experience is a case study in why not to do that. Also, next time go with someone who not only is well reviewed here but also in the $250 to $300/hr. range minimum. If you can't afford it, save up. One great session for $300 is a lot better than three shitty ones at $100 a pop.
Don't give up! Just do your homework and ask questions here.
Oddly enough, she is reviewed here. Her ratings are scattered between 5-7. I thought I did my homework. I just wanted to get over the hump and break in the hobby. Mission accomplished! Now, I have to decide if I want to stay in it lol
I too just had a " first " . I did my research and it paid off.
She was a complete knockout ! The most georgeous creature I had ever seen .
My problem ( keep in mind this was my first ) was that my excitement was there but I had a mental roadblock to orgasm. Never saw that cumming ( ha , ha ). Probably due to neither of us taking control - I think we were just not tuned into one another and SOMEONE needs to be the aggresser - Next time I am going to be the man , talk to her very openly and get on with the deed . Hope I don't hurt her as I am going to pound it this time - I feel I have to get that first orgasm and another on the second trip.
Anyway I knew that I am going back for round two with this lady . If you start reading some post's you will see that this is not that uncommon on your " first ".
Comfort level needs to be established - not going to happen in your first hour !
My advise....Pick ONLY a lady that is reviewed ! NO EXCEPTIONS !
Pay the money - trust me .
Find a knockout ( but not mine ) , be a gentleman and take your time .
If at first you don''t succeed ..........
Interesting. Well, first, I would never see anyone with ratings that low. I'd see someone who had a couple of 5s and 7s so long as they were the "outliers" on several pages of 8s and 9s, or they were early in her review history. Then there's the question of price. Given your description or her and her incall my guess is she was much closer to $100/hr than $300. If that's the case, my other advice holds. I'll take quality over quantity any day. Lucky me, at the moment I can afford both. Anyway, I hope you keep on trying until it works for you.
Money's not the issue though. I just wanted to get the first one out of the way so to speak. I figure I won't be so nervous the 2nd time around. But, I was hoping for a little boom boom at least. In this instance, I let my nerves get the best of me. I'd bet that a higher dollar provider would be able to calm me down without much issue. I should have thought of that.
you wouldn't have seen any toys, no indication that anyone is anywhere near her incall and you'd have enjoyed yourself.
The way I see it, you've had (almost) the worst hobby experience possible. Especially since you deliberately chose a lady with such low scores and (presumably) low rates. So any other provider will - by the odds anyway - be better than that!
Try again!
A higher dollar provider, if you research her properly, is more likely to give you the GFE treatment you're looking for. That's why the most important part of a TER review for me is the "Juicy Details." They will tell you a lot about how a girl handles her sessions and what kind of service to expect. Probably the main benefit of VIP.
My experience with girls in the $250-$300 range is no better than with those who charge about $200, which is the norm for quality around here. Likewise, I've been disappointed with escorts rated in the 8-9 range. Nothing quite as bad as the OP reports, but the point is that there is no shortcut for reading the actual reviews and making a subjective choice. It may be that he needs to expand his price range, if a priority on bargain hunting was what led him to pick this winner. But to automatically equate any price or rating with an assurance of quality would be no smarter IMHO.
And if it's any consolation, FG, I sometimes think it's better for newbies to jump in unprepared and get some bad experiences under their belt. I believe guys who study it to death, go by the book and never make rookie mistakes are missing out. There's something to be said for not reading the fucking manual until you've already screwed it all up on your own. So, way to go, man!
Yes Yes Yes...can't agree with inicky46 enough. I just had my first session two weeks ago with well reviewed indie provider at $300 and it was great. Take your time and do the research and don't give up...it can be great!
As others have already said a provider who is under 200/1hr or offers 30min sessions is typically the "in-and-out" girl. Likewise if she didn't have condoms I'd RUUUN! I have backups and backups of condoms. I could literally have sex 3x a day for the next 2months and not run out of condoms or lube! lol
Not only do the reviews count but WHERE the reviews ARE count. There are some sleazy local boards around me that do reviews and the reviews might be good, but if you're seeing a provider who is 75/30min you're only 1step away from the streetwalker the fact that she doesn't rob you is considered a good session! You need to connect with other local hobbyists who are more experienced and find local boards and other reputable places to find/check on providers.
Backpage can hid some real gems. I consider myself a good higher class provider and I advertise on slow weeks on BP. But honestly most the girls on there are fake or flakes. Look for girls with webpages that are well put together. If they take time in making a webpage they are typically the type who takes time on YOU!
Sorry your first experience was so bad. If her pics did NOT match her body/face you need to reflect that in the review! Likewise if the pics are very old and dated you need to mention that as well. Think about the review this way...if you would have known what she was like before you went would you have gone? You need to be honest but not mean.
To sum up what high heel barbie said YOU GET WHAT YOU PAY FOR.
Guys that decided to see girls that charge under $200 have no one to blame but themselves.
I love it when I guy sees a lady that is offering an $80 special and he has high expectations- he wants the provider to look like a perfect 10- he wants his $80 special to perform like a highend provider does.
Not only do the reviews count but WHERE the reviews ARE count. There are some sleazy local boards around me that do reviews and the reviews might be good, but if you're seeing a provider who is 75/30min you're only 1step away from the streetwalker the fact that she doesn't rob you is considered a good session! You need to connect with other local hobbyists who are more experienced and find local boards and other reputable places to find/check on providers.
Backpage can hid some real gems. I consider myself a good higher class provider and I advertise on slow weeks on BP. But honestly most the girls on there are fake or flakes. Look for girls with webpages that are well put together. If they take time in making a webpage they are typically the type who takes time on YOU!
Sorry your first experience was so bad. If her pics did NOT match her body/face you need to reflect that in the review! Likewise if the pics are very old and dated you need to mention that as well. Think about the review this way...if you would have known what she was like before you went would you have gone? You need to be honest but not mean.
I have found that Discount "Specials" are always for shorter times & lesser services. In my area, 200 is a typical donation for a reliable GFE FS hour, and some more of course. I would not expect anything less. To give a little range 200-250.
As a Newbie, sevberal years ago, I tried the bargain route & it did not work out. I figured out my mistake & have never looked back.
Guys that decided to see girls that charge under $200 have no one to blame but themselves.
I love it when I guy sees a lady that is offering an $80 special and he has high expectations- he wants the provider to look like a perfect 10- he wants his $80 special to perform like a highend provider does.
Not only do the reviews count but WHERE the reviews ARE count. There are some sleazy local boards around me that do reviews and the reviews might be good, but if you're seeing a provider who is 75/30min you're only 1step away from the streetwalker the fact that she doesn't rob you is considered a good session! You need to connect with other local hobbyists who are more experienced and find local boards and other reputable places to find/check on providers.
Backpage can hid some real gems. I consider myself a good higher class provider and I advertise on slow weeks on BP. But honestly most the girls on there are fake or flakes. Look for girls with webpages that are well put together. If they take time in making a webpage they are typically the type who takes time on YOU!
Sorry your first experience was so bad. If her pics did NOT match her body/face you need to reflect that in the review! Likewise if the pics are very old and dated you need to mention that as well. Think about the review this way...if you would have known what she was like before you went would you have gone? You need to be honest but not mean.
I'd not see anyone with less than a "7" "Attractive" for appearance... if a guy who'd just done the deed with her does not consider her at least Attractive, then move on! The performance should be 7 & up... I've found some excellant providers who are graded as 7-8... & reasonably priced.
I always carry a sealed 3 pack with me as it avoids certain types of scams, sometiimes a cover might needd to be replaced & I like a certain premium product which is not always available. (I do respect a lady's right to refuse to use products supplied by others... but I've never had it happen.)
I once had the couch thing sprung on me & I did my best but it was very uncomfortable. I would deduct for no bed available.
Always avoid the providers who offer 30 minutes sessions. They tend to be lower class providers.
I disagree with that, I usually only have time for a 30 minute session due to my schedule. I have seen three different ladies at those 150 dollar rates for 30 minutes and have had nothing but pleasureable experiences. However I did do my homework before entering hehe.
She doesn't even have to be "high dollar" for you to have an excellent experience... if you're willing to spend $250-300(in my area at least, WI) you will have a good time.... the no condom thing was done on purpose, it's one of the oldest tricks in the book. Maybe next time shoot for someone w/at least a page of 7-8s... if all her current reviews are consistent, you'll have a better chance getting what you're looking for.
1) I would not book 1/2 for my first time...book 2 hours and enjoy yourself, give yourself time to relax, get to know your provider and perhaps even have multiple pops.
2) make sure you are booking the two hour appointment with someone you want to be with for two hours....i.e. do your homework and read the reviews. Look at her pics, read the reviews and make sure the pics are accurate. Look at the numeric score (id stick with 8 and above) but dont just look at the number.....READ THE REVIEW....You can get a feeling for the kind of service to expect from a well reviewed provider.
3) don't look for a bargain for your first time. Why have a bad experience to save $100-$300. Plenty of really nice providers in all areas of the country for the 250-300 range. Hell spend more and get BBBJ CIM, Greek, massage and the works for your first time.
I will agree that no condom is a plan to avoid FS... and to hurry you out. Some guys like quickies but I'm not one... and not good for first experiences as you must expect some lost time getting aquainted. I have to agree no less than 1 hour & longer if you think you might have trouble completing. After an initial 1/2 hour failure my first time out, I booked 1 1/2 for a the first year... no regrets.
I don't start by reading ads... I start my research here... But if you see an ad with a "Special" for a low price... expect it is for a shorter time and lesser services. Also read the reviews & bio for hints that her menu is "one & done" or full time. My "girl with just a couch" experience... I paid for a full hour & no bed & the whole business was hurry up & out the door! Honestly, I was on the sidewalk again in a half hour thinking for the same money I could have been with someone nice!
Service level or quality is not necessarily reflected in the size of the donation.
...experience? If so, she could have told you she had no condoms just to make her job easier, knowing you would believe it.
Sorry to hear about your first horror exp. You could have easily avoided by having a VIP membership. I looked at the girl's reviews and most reviews are negative for her( you could have easily seen with a VIP membership). But anyways, the first time can go bad as it did for me even if all the homework is right....
When i first started hobbying, I researched for 2 months and had short listed two providers in Phoneix ( I was there for a business trip). Both had excellent stellar reviews and were pretty pricey( 500/hr). I booked both of them on two different days. My first exp ( I haven't written a review on her, something that I wish I had done) went bad. The provider showed up nearly 2 hrs late, she was drunk and smelled of Cig smoke. I had booked her for 1 hr. For the first 30 mins, she did not allow more than a hug and wasted a lot of time talking nonsense and giving me unneeded advice as to why I should have booked 2 hrs instead of one hour. Then she proceeded with the main events. But I was so repelled by her attitude that I could not get hard. She then screamed at me and asked me what my problem was as I was not getting hard. That made me end the session as I did not wish to be paying for getting humiliated. Needless to say, my expecations of Hobbying crashed down and I felt like giving up hobbying. Since I had already booked with the second provider, I did not want to cancel last minute and kept my appointment with her next day. I am glad I did. She was total opposite of what my first exp was and was everything that a guy looks for in a provider. I did post a review of her(my first review). This regained my faith in hobbying and since then most experiences have been very good to exceptional for me.
Looking back, I feel the first provider took advantage of the fact that I was a Newbie and maybe if I repeat today with her, my exp might be different, however no way I am going back to her.
Bottom line, get VIP membership, it saves a lot of hassle.
Happy Hobbying.....
But, it wasn't a total waste. I got a reference to see a 9/10 provider near me and she already verified me. So, in a week or two I hope to have the opposite experience. I guess I'm kind of a sh!t for writing her a not so stellar review then using her as a reference.
The lesson should be to read her reviews carefully, and do all the research you can. Regarding price, although you shouldn't make bargain hunting a priority, realize that no price or rating alone will guarantee a good experience.
Your review seems quite fair to me. However, I wouldn't use her as a reference. Doesn't reflect well on you for those providers who would actually check her out.
