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Sorry to keep bothering you guys
spinman91 61 Reviews 1729 reads
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1 / 12

I was trying to look for the thread I saw a while back about this but I was wondering if there is a consensus
on handling the donation for a double if the providers have (slightly) different rates for that said duration.
I know two envelopes is a must and I figure I should just leave it at that.

spinman91 61 Reviews 389 reads
posted
2 / 12

Looks like I accidentally put this on the general board instead of the newbie board if a mod wants to move it accordingly that'd be fine.

ITAdmin 8 Reviews 364 reads
posted
3 / 12

You are making this way to hard. I don't really understand why this is a problem for you. 2 envelopes, each with the name of the woman on it it is for. No issues...

mrfisher 112 Reviews 370 reads
posted
4 / 12

about setting up a doubles session, and let her organize it.

She'll let you know what the donation is, and then work it out with the gal she brings to the double.  That way you stay out of the middle.

On a few occasions, I have set up the double with each gal independently, and I paid them their published rate independently.

harborview 10 Reviews 381 reads
posted
5 / 12

are OK with working together.  They may have a two for rate.  In this case, It would be OK to inquire so long as no discussion of activities, just their time.  If there's a doubles rate, you use one envolupe.  If they give separate rates, you package it according to their instructions.

spinman91 61 Reviews 388 reads
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6 / 12

Posted By: theonegodd
You are making this way to hard. I don't really understand why this is a problem for you. 2 envelopes, each with the name of the woman on it it is for. No issues...
which would be fine if they didn't ask for unmarked envelopes.

spinman91 61 Reviews 328 reads
posted
7 / 12

Right my first doubles session went the way of the former which took that pressure on me I was thinking having flowers ready each with their name and their donation to the side to not leave confusion and to keep the donation unmarked as requested

spinman91 61 Reviews 341 reads
posted
8 / 12

right I never would be at this part if I didn't hop over that first hurdle. I posed them both the question individually and gave them each others information so they could at least introduce themselves to one another. I've already done it the one way before it was a lot easier (moreso because they were young co-eds at an apartment). I was actually thinking of something with flower(s) and keep the donation unmarked as requested.

keystonekid 114 Reviews 321 reads
posted
9 / 12

with you will tell you the cost.  Put the $$ in one envelope and the ladies will deal with how to divide it up.

spinman91 61 Reviews 338 reads
posted
10 / 12

Posted By: keystonekid
with you will tell you the cost.  Put the $$ in one envelope and the ladies will deal with how to divide it up.
which would have worked if I set it up that way with a girl that she picked but her site said she is open to it with other girls so I figured why not asked Provider A if she would like to try with Provider B and vice versa to make sure everyone was on board with the idea and judging by the correspondence they gave me they haven't really talked much with each other but the one had something going on this past week that ate up her time so yeah. I figured I'd get them each flower(s) with a card and handle their donations that way if that doesn't seem to weird

crazyshit 293 reads
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11 / 12
MissAliceQuinn See my TER Reviews 346 reads
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12 / 12

Posted By: spinman91
Posted By: theonegodd
You are making this way to hard. I don't really understand why this is a problem for you. 2 envelopes, each with the name of the woman on it it is for. No issues...
which would be fine if they didn't ask for unmarked envelopes.
Unmakred doesn't literally mean unmarked. Crease the corner of one. Crease on lengthwise and one midway. Or just make a small pen mark in the corner.

Unmarked, not indistinguishable. :)

Kiss me,

Kate

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