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Sorry I didn't specify!
deviant_girl 2261 reads
posted
1 / 19
Hi! Am I the only one??

I just joined TER after reading about it on another site. It sounds like this site is the go-to place to learn about escorts. I am a female and am trying to get up the courage to have my first date! I don't even know where to begin! Are there any other ladies here who hire escorts? I'm so nervous but I want to do it. I just don't know how and this isn't something that I can talk to my friends about! Is there such a thing as mentoring here lol

1736687 15 Reviews 575 reads
posted
2 / 19
You have cum to the right place..

Where are you located? Are you looking for a female or a male escort?  
You can get some help here.. but you gotta-share a little bit...

keystonekid 114 Reviews 418 reads
posted
3 / 19
Welcome deviant_girl. Check out the Self-Help Center on the top right of this board . . .

near the red & white life preserver. If you are a provider, then read the info about posting ads on your regional board once a week. Learn to use the search function and read several pages of this board as well as your regional board. Post your thoughts so guys get an idea of your philosophies.

Lopaw is an established female monger. Search for some of her posts and you will get an idea of how she contributes to this board and others.

Good luck.

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 410 reads
posted
4 / 19
There are definitely female clients here who hire escorts.

Not a lot but a few of them are out there. Vegasgirllover, hotplants, and Lopaw come to mind right away. Lopaw posts often on the general board and sometimes here. Maybe she will chime in with some advice.

Other than that, the general advice I can give you is to read the Self Help Center (you can find it up at the top of the page by the red and white life preserver.) Also read back on this newbie board 10 or 20 pages. Then come back and ask specific questions if you have them. I would also recommend purchasing VIP at least for one month, so that you can read reviews, do searches, and use the PM system.
Good luck.

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 418 reads
posted
5 / 19
Can someone PM Lopaw and see if she is willing to give some advice to this poster?

I tried but Lopaw has me on ignore.

NoYellowEnvelope 509 reads
posted
6 / 19
You asked a key question!

"Are you looking for a female or male escort?"

It appears everyone but you assumed the OP is looking for female escorts.  But that wasn't clear in the OP.  TER is oriented to female and TS escorts, but there's some female/male duos reviewed. So if the OP is looking for male escorts, there will be a lot less help available here but I have seen discussion threads re male escorts before.  The OP's local board or the ISO Board might be good places to check out if seeking male escorts.

deviant_girl 527 reads
posted
7 / 19
Sorry I didn't specify!

I am very bi am I am interested in only female escorts. I won;t be doing any couples stuff. Just me and a beautiful women - hopefully! I have been reading some of the Newbie info here and it is awesome! Lots of stuff to learn! I'm sure that I will have tons of questions and I appreciate all of your patience with me.

Say_Whhhaaaat 413 reads
posted
8 / 19
The ladies Perfect Storm mentioned see ladies...



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Fancy8888 See my TER Reviews 409 reads
posted
9 / 19
Yes I have hire male escort.Plenty out there.

Posted By: deviant_girl
I just joined TER after reading about it on another site. It sounds like this site is the go-to place to learn about escorts. I am a female and am trying to get up the courage to have my first date! I don't even know where to begin! Are there any other ladies here who hire escorts? I'm so nervous but I want to do it. I just don't know how and this isn't something that I can talk to my friends about! Is there such a thing as mentoring here lol
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deadeye65 8 Reviews 366 reads
posted
10 / 19
Re: Sorry I didn't specify!

What area are you looking in?

sasha2cute See my TER Reviews 384 reads
posted
11 / 19
Yes. female hobbyists are rare but they are out there.

Hope u join the files soon :).

deviant_girl 345 reads
posted
12 / 19
Hi deadeye65...I am located in Phoenix.


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deviant_girl 364 reads
posted
13 / 19
Re: Yes I have hire male escort.Plenty out there.

Hi Fancy. I am looking for female escorts only.

deviant_girl 392 reads
posted
14 / 19
I got a few messages here but I don't have VIP yet! Sorry!


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lopaw 29 Reviews 338 reads
posted
15 / 19
Feel free to PM me once you get your VIP up and running, deviant_girl...

...and in the meantime just use the forums to ask any questions that you might have.

And welcome aboard, fellow lady monger! :D

impposter 49 Reviews 409 reads
posted
16 / 19
Anonymous GC for quick PM. Fun in NYC, too.

Posted By: perfectstorm
Not a lot but a few of them are out there. Vegasgirllover, hotplants, and Lopaw come to mind right away. Lopaw posts often on the general board and sometimes here. Maybe she will chime in with some advice.  
   
 Other than that, the general advice I can give you is to read the Self Help Center (you can find it up at the top of the page by the red and white life preserver.) Also read back on this newbie board 10 or 20 pages. Then come back and ask specific questions if you have them. I would also recommend purchasing VIP at least for one month, so that you can read reviews, do searches, and use the PM system.  
 Good luck.
The Life Preserver is only visible on the Board Home Pages, so hit the "Back to Forum" button at the bottom of any post you're reading and look for it there (picture, below).

It is quick and easy to get some anonymous PM (and VIP) using an anonymous Gift Card. Read "Trade Unused GC" at the bottom of this page: http://www.theeroticreview.com/vip/buyVIP.asp?option=monthly
Conversion rates vary, but it's roughly $40 for 35 days when done this way, until you decide whether you want to use a CC, money order or other means and to buy yearly or quarterly or monthly. Buy a GC using CASH (anonymous) and upload it to the site and your VIP is nearly instantaneous.  

If you visit the NY board, "Search" for author = frenchy74 and day range = 100 [or 200 or whatever] to 0 for another XX participant. Once you have PM, check out her reviews, too.

Welcome! Have fun!

EDIT: Oops! Forgot to attach the picture!

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Related Link: See Trade Unused GC at the bottom of this page.

Real_Couple See my TER Reviews 339 reads
posted
17 / 19
Welcome to the Island of Misfit Toys...lol

As others who don't quite fit into the typical hobby definitions or hobby model (we are a couple who provide together), we appreciate it when others take the time to publicly expand the hobby and ask questions. There are more of us non-traditionalists out there than you may think so you are certainly not alone. If you do decide you would like to get together with a couple, we hope you keep us in mind...

We are happy to help if you have any questions that we can answer. Feel free to email us: [email protected] if you prefer to go the private route...

Best wishes and have fun :-)

vegasgirllover 343 reads
posted
18 / 19
Hi, i too am a female hobbyists ....elcome to the fun!! Eom

Posted By: deviant_girl
I just joined TER after reading about it on another site. It sounds like this site is the go-to place to learn about escorts. I am a female and am trying to get up the courage to have my first date! I don't even know where to begin! Are there any other ladies here who hire escorts? I'm so nervous but I want to do it. I just don't know how and this isn't something that I can talk to my friends about! Is there such a thing as mentoring here lol

deviant_girl 268 reads
posted
19 / 19
Thank you everyone! You are all awesome!

I hope that I don't get to annoying with dumb questions. I know that I have quite a bit of learning to do here.

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