Scroll down to the "Rejected due to race" post by brown7.

Here's my take for what it is worth (I'm a middle-aged white man from Phoenix who now lives in England.  I've also been reading these boards for 6 years, and have been hobbying for 18 years).

1) Unfortunately, there are a number of providers, but not all, or even the majority, that discriminate, and race is not the only criteria used.  Other criteria include:  age, weight, wealth, and appearance (yes, there are some providers that you send a photo of yourself as part of the booking process).

2) Unless she asks, why tell her your race beforehand?  Most gals won't turn away a client who knocks on their door, but the effort and enthusiasm can vary.  Your worst scenario is that she shuts the door in your face.  I know hard on the ego, but the cash is still in your pocket.  2nd worst, you have enough fun to leave with a smile on your face, but know that you could have done better.

3) Now if you really want GFE, your question is appropriate and smart.  Just as the ladies screen potential clients, if you have certain expectations, use this question to screen the ladies.

Hope this helps,

jazz32

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I think that when you contact any provider you should tell her a bit about you.
Give her your stats etc also....

I am sure YOU have a certain-type you like to see, so don't take it personally if she chooses not to see you....it's her preference

Providers don't take ever client that contacts them

AND if you are harmless, say so in your initial contact email, be real and human

Hope this helps!

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Yes, it's fine to ask.  I know from reading the boards that quite a few ladies won't see black guys so it's best to ask in advance.

I guess they must have had bad experiences with black clients or just expect them to be problematic.  Personally, it makes no difference to me, there are good and bad people of all types.

Hi - not sure if this will help or not - but I repsonded to someone who was complaining that the providers wouldn't see black guys.  I have no problem with the color, it was his attitude that shut him down.  I also let him know that after we had chatted a bit it wasn't his skin color that was making me turn him down, it was his whole demeaner.  I know some providers won't see black men, but there are some out there that will and when you find her your in for a treat!