I am looking to setup a visit with a new provider names Ashley. She has no reviews as she is new to this business. We have had email communications which I will post below.

Here is the email I sent her:

You sound like a fun person to be with and I am looking forward to us getting together. I am a a first timer to this so I am a little nervous. I am a reader of the TER and BDoggie and I have been unable to find any reviews on you. Am I missing them? I would luv to see you, but I hope you can understand me being very cautious. I do not need any LE problems. Hope to hear back from you real soon.

Here is her response:

hey jug i did get your email but im off for the night no i stil dont have any reviews maybe you culd be the first! that would be cool if u ask me sometimes it seems silly that people don't wanna see you cuz u don't have any reviews you know! if i was a dude i would take all that stuff on a grain assault.. its like the paper & tv, you can't always believe what ya read.. but if you're willing to take a chance with me lemme know and hope someone will review me soon and if i know i have one for sure i will email ya & let ya know! u sound sweet! xoxoxo ashley

Then she sent me another quick email:

oh, i forgot to say no im not afilliated with any type of law enforcement officials! don't worry im not into pigs, lol (hope your not one either!) xoxoxo ahsley

I would really like to see her but I am a newbie to this hobby and I am not sure what to do. What would you do if you were me? Would you see her? Would you find someone who has been reviewed and forget about her.

Thanks

see an extensively reviewed, highly rated provider for your first experience. That way you don't have to worry about LE or being ripped off. It'll make for a much more enjoyable experience. Taking one for the team the first time out probably isn't any fun. I'm sure getting busted isn't.

From her website, I assume your in the NY/NJ area. Go to the NY board and ask for a recommendation on someone who's good with Jedi apprentices. Also mention that you don't have any provider references. (Don't use an alias or you'll get laughed out of there). If you don't have a VIP membership, get one. That way, you can research the recommendations to see if any of them are your type.

There's nothing in your correspondence with the linked provider that would put me at ease. Her website doesn't inspire confidence either. In fact, I'm getting bad vibes from her email. Turning "a grain of salt" into "a grain assault" bothers me. And not many providers _are_ into pigs.

Personally, I would stay away from this one. She's under 21, so you can't exactly meet first for drinks to see if you feel a disturbance in the Force, and its not fair to ask her to meet you for lunch off the clock to see if you connect.

Good luck.

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I looked up at the top left corner while typing my response and didn't see an envelope, so I assumed an alias. I apologize. I didn't realize that you don't get an envelope on the Post Message page.

well if it were my first time i would want some solid reviews. check out a provider in your area with reviews start from there
good luck
hogan

I'd run from this one ..... First time? go with someone that is well reviewed....... There are so so many incredible indies reviewed here... stay with a well known in your area ... good luck .......

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This is my rookie year as a hobbyist.  I got bumps and bruises to show learning the hard way.  That is the reason why I am replying to your inquiry.  You are on the right track going to the discussion boards first and asking questions.  Would you go swimming if you saw sharks in the water?  Obviously not!  But, if you got $$$ to burn then the temptation of testing the waters with this "babe" may be too irresistible for you.  You can rationalize your situation with her because she is new and clearly she would not have many reviews.  Or, you can absorb the wisdom that all of us here are trying to pass on to you and look for more established "reputable" providers.  Good luck with your choice.  (...and, would you be willing to let us know what you have truly decided?)

Before TER I had many nice experiences.  However, some were average or below average and definitely one or two were horrible experiences.  Most of time I suppose I got lucky and perhaps the average working girl is probably alright and semi-honest isn't out to rip off guys.  

I took a lot of chances and two times I met a couple of girls who I really liked and saw several times each.  One I found in the LA Weekly without a photo and the other online in a AOL chatroom.  Ahh, those were the days.  Those girls started out as massage only deals. After the first session they revealed more was offered the next time I came around once they could see I was cool.

Now, with TER there's no way I would see a girl without a review.  In fact, I almost never browse escort sites anymore unless I'm really bored.  I browse TER 99% of the time and will only go with the tried and true.  

So, if I were you just starting out and armed with TER I would definitely look for a favourably reviewed girl.  Why would you do otherwise?  Unless, you got money to burn and like the excitement, go for the unreviewed girl.  Then again, you might discover a real find and keep her to yourself.  Obviously, every reviewed girl at one time had zero reviews.  Somebody was the first to see her and venture in with no information.  

Since, I have found TER I let others be the first these days.  So, why not make your first experience be a good one, almost guaranteed after a little research on TER.

Good luck.

Carl Hungus

I would not see this woman simply based on the fact that she used "grain assault" instead of "grain of salt." What is a "grain assault" anyway, when a hostile stalk of wheat beats you senseless? Intelligence is sexy, and it sure does a lot for me when I meet a provider.

I'd echo everyone else's thoughts.  I had several experiences before I first discovered TER.  Found the providers through websites that didn't offer reviews.  None of the experiences was better than average, and one was downright awful.  Certainly none of them was worth either the time or the money expended.

I've only had one post-TER experience.  It was fantastic, worth every bit of time and money expended, plus plenty more.  

You may have a fantastic experience with this rookie, but why risk it?  For my first dip in the waters, I wish I had been able to find someone reliably excellent, as you can do with the information available to you here.

Good luck.