How can a client get whitelisted on here? I never knew there was a such thing until recently when I needed reference for a provider. I have a list of provider and agencies but some providers don't take agencies. Some providers also don't seem to check there email if another provider is asking for a reference so I was asking to get two whitelist off ter but I don't know what is needed. if you can help pm me or post! Thanks

In order to whitelist you on TER, your date must have a Provider Profile on TER, which I hope is the case for a relative newbie.

Soon after your date, you can ask her to whitelist you on TER. I don't know the exact steps that she takes but she will obviously need to know your TER handle (Sonic68).  

Not all ladies whitelist. Some whitelist selectively. Some say yes and then forget. There have been a few cases where ladies have whitelisted (accidentally or not?) guys they didn't actually meet.  

Although some ladies you contacted asked for whitelist info, not all accept it.  Everyone has their preferred verification methods

...won't whitelist for a 6/6 review as he's given.

Some providers whitelist without being asked.  Some whitelist only after three visits.  Each provider has her own policy on whitelisting.