As Swim said go read the self help section, the first thing you might want to read is some info for providers which will tell you how to link your erinlivingston account to your reviews and get limited VIP at the same time. Also there is a section explaining about posting ads in the self help. The self help section is not just for the guys there is a bunch of provider questions answered also. Then come back to the newbie board and scan through several pages of the questions being asked. A lot of providers have already asked a lot of the questions that might still elude you, then if your still not sure ask yourself on here, it's not unusual for just about step by step hand holding to occur if you really need it. Just let us know that you have read the self help and what still your not sure of.