I have never done it but do girls care about what color skin or nationality I have or is it that they care about the guy being a gentelman. I have never done this hoby before so was just curious. Any thoughts?

I always make sure they know I am African American up front. I try to get that out of the way so I don't have any drama. Like driving 50 miles and no one opening the door..It does happen.lol

Race is an issue for some providers but I would think the majority just care that you are a gentleman.  As the post above says, it might be worthwhile letting them know in advance just in case they are one of the ladies who prefers not to see guys of a certain race.

Be forthright about your ethnicity too avoid wasted fuel and time. It's not considered PC for a provider to promulgate her racial preferences on her ads/website or around here; but then again no-one says a business shouldn't be able to refuse service to those not wearing shoes or shirts(or any other arbitrary reason for that fact).

Absolutly agree. It goes both ways. Being an Ebony provider or hobbyist is another niche entirely.

It's good to let it be known beforehand.

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