are not attracted to the provider? Maybe the photo was flattering or she is having a really bad day- but would you leave her or go through with the session?
The only issue IMO is whether you feel she deceived you in which case you don't owe her a cent. Or if you just "aren't feeling it" with her, through no real fault or intention to deceive on her part. In which case you should give her something for her time.
are not attracted to the provider? Maybe the photo was flattering or she is having a really bad day- but would you leave her or go through with the session?
If you don't like what you see, or something doesn't look or feel right, why would you proceed with the date? I also agree that you shouldn't give her a cent if she was deceitful. Leaving money or proceeding with the date is rewarding bad behavior. On the other hand if it is just you not feeling it, then you do owe her something.
I am always amazed at how many reviews I read where they state right in the beginning the pics were fake, or old, and the girl was not attractive but they stayed anyway. Something like, "The door opened and it clearly was not the girl from the pics. She was shorter, fatter and had a bad complexion. I should have left but I was already there, so I figured what the heck..." These reviews never end well.
Posted By: nice3033
are not attracted to the provider? Maybe the photo was flattering or she is having a really bad day- but would you leave her or go through with the session?
Something like this should never happen if she has lots of reviews and there all positive, its highly unlikely that a lady with good reviews is not going to be who you are expecting, that's why for so many reasons everyone should always stick with well reviewed ladies/agencies.
Posted By: nice3033
are not attracted to the provider? Maybe the photo was flattering or she is having a really bad day- but would you leave her or go through with the session?
If everyone followed this idea there would be no new providers (or hobbyists). Somebody's gotta TOFTT.
Posted By: Steven238
Something like this should never happen if she has lots of reviews and there all positive, its highly unlikely that a lady with good reviews is not going to be who you are expecting, that's why for so many reasons everyone should always stick with well reviewed ladies/agencies.
Posted By: nice3033
are not attracted to the provider? Maybe the photo was flattering or she is having a really bad day- but would you leave her or go through with the session?
If you follow the thread, the OP (nice3033) was asking about what to do when you are disappointed or deceived at the door. GaG, Fancy and I all said to leave. Then Steven238 said that if you see well reviewed providers, things like that wouldn't happen in the first place. That was also good advice. It is mostly true and the mantra we always share here to newbies: "Newbies should stick to well reviewed providers."
FetisFun50 said if everyone followed that advice, there would be no new reviewed providers. That is also true, and my reply to him was that NEWBIES should stick to well reviewed providers. TOFTT should be left to veterans with experience.
As the host of the newbie board, I always suggest that newbies see well reviewed providers. As an experienced monger I don't follow that rule myself. I see many providers with few or no reviews.
However there is always the chance that this type of situation is going to happen, hence the term TOFTT. The only time I would ever do that is if the lady was with an agency I have used many times in the past and trusted there judgement.
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