Went to see a provider today, bit of a longish drive. Called when at the general area. No return call. Texted 15 minutes later, no reply. Left after waiting nearly half hour.

What's the TER etiquette for this? I cant say it was a ripoff, since i wasnt out $, but it did wast a lot of my day....

thoughts?

Sometimes non-professional attitude cause some ladies to double book.  Maybe another guy came early, and you were out of luck.  Had that experience.  But on the flip side of the coin, I booked a lady via an agency and got to the hotel first.  Apparently, another guy  also did, but I was lucky to get there first, because the Agency fukked up.  

Yeah, but it was weird. I called 1 girl. She was off to the airport and suggested her roommate. The roommate looked hot so I called her and booked for 2 hours in advance. So unless someone else ran really late, or she just didnt feel like working, it didnt really make sense.

Not the end of the world, but irritating all the same.

That sucks- I am sorry you went through that No provider should ever NCNS unless it is a true emergency, and in that case she should contact you asap to apologize and/or offer to rebook or make it up to you. That is purely unprofessional.

As a provider who took a hiatus and am recently getting back into providing on a limited basis, I'd say to shoot her an email or text asking what happened, there may be a legit reason and give her a chance to explain and make it right. However, it seems more likely than not that it was some sort of mis-communication or double booking situation.. Either way, NOT at all professional and rude to you.

That said, I would highly advise you, to ensure the best quality of service and consistency, to make sure you have read the profile and all the reviews of the provider you are considering meeting, and preferably book your date in advance. It seems with 2 hours notice and a last minute switch to a roommate of the initial provider, I am guessing the TER check may not have been done (forgive my assumption if I am incorrect)?

Most reputable providers will have good reviews, will screen well (there is no way in my thought process, if this was a second hand arrangement, and on such short notice, that she could have done so-- thus my other though is that she got nervous/paranoid about it due to the circumstance) but perhaps her roommate did the screening and thought she'd feel comfortable since it had been done??

I don't know the specifics, more details might help us better understand what could have happened, but it's of course hard to make assumptions.. That said, I do highly recommend seeing providers with consistent TER reviews and profile, good screening and booking (for example, my ideal is to book a week out when possible, due to the time needed for thorough screening and my busy schedule w/ school and other commitments- not implying that a provider who can take short notice bookings is any less professional, just that if you think about it, screening and such show she protects her own safety and participation- if she does not look out for herself, how can you trust her with your info etc. and trust her to respect your equal need for privacy and safety? Does that make sense?)

Hope some of this helped, and again, maybe I am grasping for straws here since I don't know the whole situation, I know it can be easy when you are anticipating an appointment and relaxation and are presented with the option of another provider or sub, and you find her attractive, to accept that, but that might not always be best if you don't have time to establish that she is reliable and safe and establish good communication.

I am again so sorry you experienced this, this should never happen and is not acceptable no matter what, and I wish you better luck next time!!

xoxo

You ever coming to Florida, specifically Tampa?

Swim

Some girls work on the "first to arrive gets the girl" plan.  Repeat after the first leaves.  It's kind of akin to street walking.  It sucks for a guy to drive, arrive & no date.  Locals might be able to deal with this but as I have to drive, it is totally unacceptable.
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Sorry to hear about your experieince. You can post a warning on your local board, However, be prepared for wk to come to her rescue if she's well known. Also if you use an alias, it doesn't hold the same meaning as if you use your ter handle. You cannot post a review, as there was no meeting