Trying to hook up for my 1st experience. Have read many reviews on providers in my area but I must admit I find it hard to tell who are the Full Service providers and who arnt. I know asking blunt questions is out but how do you make sure that what you want is available before making an appointment and then paying $300 for a back rub? Also what should I be able to provide so that they can check me out? I know this sounds like a cop-out but I work from home and my wife is my business partner.

which you should find helpful in the beginning of your pursuit in this hobby.  Try to read messages in the first few pages of the newbie board and your local regional board.

The National board usually deals with Off Topic and relationship issues which are not necessary very rewarding to newbies.

Good luck.

For the amount of money your going to spend with a lady,the cost of a VIP membership is well worth every penny. There is an option where you can pay with a money order also if your concerned about iBill showing up on your credit card statement.

The juicey details part of the reviews will give you a very good idea of what to expect when with a lady.

As far as screening, it varies from person to person. All i can say is don't give out any information that you do not feel comfortable giving out, that way you won't worry after weather you should have or not. This may limit your selection somewhat in the beginning, but better to be limited then parinoid about what you have divulged. Also, i would recommend stricking with well reviewed ladys here on TER. While nothing is 100%, i feel comfortable giving out some info. to a lady that i can see has been around for awhile with good reviews. Remember, this is how these ladys earn their income, but they also have their safety and comfort zone to be concerned about as well as yours. Generally, the B&S, ROBs won't last to long once a few reviews are up.

Also, set up another email account to use for this and only for this. Makes life much easier, and safer, if you have a S.O.

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The only blunt question is how you present it, there doesn't have to be a blunt question.  Tell her your likes and dislikes and let her answer, ie.  I love to DFK and I am very oral, I also love to DATY are these ok with you? To the point but not blunt... Many of us work out of our homes ... Most if not all of your questions can be asked via e-mail ... it all depends on the comfort zone you have established with the one or dozen of indie's you are interested in.  My very first time we answered all of our questions (hers and mine) via e-mail.  good luck ...As for being checked out that to can be done very simply but depends on your provider no two providers are alike when it comes to screening clients and ask her for help in this area.