Do you usually dress like a gentlemen or like a slob? If you dress too nice won't it trigger LE if they see you? Or do you try to be discreet

Dress however you would like. For guys I dont think dressing any which way will trigger LE. Alot of guys come straight from work in a suit or shirt and tie... some guys come in work out clothes because they told their wives they were going to the gym!

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That consists of a shirt with a collar, a jacket, slacks with a crease and leather shoes and socks.  A nice watch is a fine finishing touch too.

If there is one part of the outfit to not scrimp on, it is the shoes.  That is what gals notice first.  Given how much time and energy gals spend on selecting the right shoes for them, why do we men think that they will not notice or care what is on our feet?

during most of the year, which is our summer, I usually dress in a collared shirt, a la Magnum P.I., if you remember that show, and shorts and sneakers (maybe flipflops if I have seen her before).

During most of our short winters, I wear a flannel shirt over a Tshirt from somewhere, and jeans.  Year round, I usually wear a ball cap as well.

I am retired, so I am not getting dressed up for anyone, unless it's a real special occasion.  I also carry a WalMart bag with my gifts in it, so to the hotel staff, I look like someone staying in the hotel that went out to do a bit of shopping.

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of the place where you are meeting the provider.

you do not want to stand out or attract attention.

I always wear a full tuxedo with opal cufflinks, a boutineer, carry my gold-knob diamond encrusted cane and have a martini, shaken - not stirred, in my other hand.  I also only speak as if I were in late 17th century England.  When I pull up to the hotel, I do so in a horse drawn carriage and have the valet park it for me.  Be sure to bring plenty of hay though.  Those horses get mighty antsy after a 5 hour dinner date.

I wouldn't go as far as wearing a suite but for me wearing shorts and tee shirt isn't my style either.  I like to wear nice pants or jeans with a nice button up shirt w/ a collar, always tucked in and nice brown or black leather shoes.   I guess you can say the look is casual or dress casual.  

because I always leave them on when I'm with a provider.  (In honor of Governor Spitzer).