So last night I started getting threatening calls from a provider I have seen several times over the past year. She has reviews from the site and seemed normal when I met her. Should I just ignore it or warn people somewhere? Been doing this for 3 years and never had a problem like this before.

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Sorry to hear that. What is she threatening to do? Out you? Telling you to stay away from other providers? Can you give us more detail? Depending on what she is saying to you, I might advise ignoriing it or possibly sending her a very soft apology and taking all the blame, even if there is none to take. Just depends I guess. Good luck.

her to do this.  Not knowing what happened, it's difficult to tell you how to proceed.  The previous poster asked you a number of questions.  With those answers, someone might be able to give you some direction.  I think that the seriousness of the threats makes a big difference in how you should react to them.  It's sad that this occurred, but shit does happen in the hobby sometimes.

Swim

She called with some other guy. The guy was making most of the threats, like "I'm gonna fuck you up" etc. I saw her a couple of days ago before the call, but it was a normal session. She mentioned something about my "member" got her in trouble and to never call her again. This is all very odd as I've seen her multiple times this year, and never had any issues with her. I mean she has good reviews, I wasn't expecting this from a well reviewed provider, that is why I use this website.

It was actually some guy calling from her number. First all I heard was both of them yelling at each other, some threats at me, then I hung up. Then the guy called again, threatened me some more, and then she grabbed the phone telling me to never call her again. She also mentioned something like my "member" getting her in trouble. Was kind of hard to make it out due to them both yelling.

I'm sorry to hear that.

Be safe..

Are you sure she didn't say "Number" as in Tiger Woods style where his wife saw called numbers on his phone and called them back to talk to the girl.  Maybe her SO got her phone and saw your number and called it.

and if you are,  you can do one of two things, ignore the calls or get a new hobby phone. And for all the newbs reading this, thread, this is EXACTLY why you use a hobby phone. The OP mentions hobbying for 3 years without a problem, well, bingo now he's got a problem. This also goes for personal information, give out as little as possible.

But can you go to your cell provider, buy a new phone, and ask for another number?  I've never tried this or heard of anyone who has, but it sounds like you wouldn't mind spending a few bucks to be rid of this problem.

And use a verification service like p411, date check, RS2K.  It protects your privacy just as much as an easy way have ladies vouch for you.

Well so far no more calls besides last night. So should I let any review sites know about this behavior from her? I wouldn't want this crap happening to other people too.

No, if I were you, I would sit tight and lay low. Get rid of that phone asap if you can too. My guess is the SO will turn his attention toward her and away from you when he calms down. Best of luck.

I agree not 'member' but number.   New hobby phone time.  I had to get a new one a year ago...

toss the phone. I assume this is NOT your real number that connects back to your name? Let us hope not.

If that was a land line with or without your address listed CANCEL Tell them it's urgent the info is removed. Contact Google to have your number removed. It's a good idea anyway so that they "Do no evil" nor help others.  It takes work, you go through there NY office.  I know somebody whose phone number gave a satellite pic of their house on the block.  Now they're on the stock exchange it's somewhat easier without a writ, we did it without one (they can almost be counter-productive in some circum.)    Use only a hobby phone, best with a different area code than your own.

The exact way you repeated the call doesn't have the threatening tones I'd worry about.

I like Hidden Hills initial advice.

PM a couple of her reviewers.  See what they experienced.

Hell no I'm clean as a whistle... she mentioned it being a size issue...

Your "member" either gave her STD or got her pregnant.  Either way, it can't be good.

Do a fair review, put the threat exactly as it happened and what was said.  If they read it and she probably will she will get angry, but you've documented the threat.  If it anything were carried through they know they're suspects no.1, best deterent short of body guards or going on the offensive which isn't called for.

I've gotten threats, and I'm proactive or I wouldn't sleep.  BF's have egos that cool down, but I have girls break up over such jealous acts, especially one interfering with business.  His anger is with her in such a case.  To be safe buy a bat and tell your friends to call b4 coming over.

Do most people get a 2nd phone?