There are may married providers, and most ladies let somebody know where and when they are going for outcalls for their safety. That being said if something doesn't feel right bailout. but try not to over think things either.

and marital status is just one of those.

I would not worry about it because a lot of providers are married and it's no big deal.

Guys, however, like the fantasy aspect of the hobby and finding out a gal is married can be a turn off and/or cause anxiety, as is your case.

To compound that and tell you about her husbands infidelity is really crazy.

By the way, there are gals  who are not married and tell guys that they are to fend off unwanted solicitations.

It's a murky world out there folks.

It is the job of both parties to make each other comfortable. Any rationale person would know not to bring up a SO and him knowing your room number and hotel location. Now that is different than a provider letting you know that "someone" knows she is with you and where you at. That is done by many ladies for their own security as many believe if you know a third party knows her whereabouts, you will be less likely to pull any physical stuff with her.

But to mention someone that could bang on that door in a fit of jealous rage at any moment, that's just crazy. She may know he is cool with it but you don't know it. It's hard for me to tell you what I would have done. So many factors, reading her body language, judging her overall demeanor, etc would all play in to my decision. If I felt extremely uncomfortable, I might have tried to bargain the rate and left. If she balked and got pissed, then maybe I just cut my losses, pay her the whole freight and move on with my life. It depends how much of your personal info she has of you, how much you have to lose, etc.

She should have never put u in that situation and if you can, I would mention it in ur review if you are able to stand up to the heat that could surely follow that decision. Since you are a newb and you wanted to remain on the down low for awhile, I wouldn't blame you.

Not really "worried" about the husband but it seems to me that the lady in question talks way too much.  Most providers have a person who knows where they are and when they will be done but it's not generally something they bring up to the client.  As far as husbands go, OK, some are married but really,  why the fuck do I care or even want to know?  The entire situation sounds like a huge buzz-kill to me...

I'm totally in favor of the "fuck them and leave" approach but sometimes these girls make it harder than it has to be.

NO

happens all the time..just have your fun and dont worry about all the extraneous shit..the " pissed at hubby" comment was uncalled for..all the girls have a safety valve..most are assistants..some use their girl friends..SO's or even husbands..they are there to give her a safety net..not ruin your appointment..

Was with a very nice, mature lady with a body of a young lady.  She made no secret of being married, even pics of her husband clearly visible.  I was comfortable and enjoyed the time I spent with her.

When we meet, it's in character GFE...  while we are dressing we might share things about our lives.  I think she does it to keep guys from falling from her.  The for the departure, she's back into GFE mode.  
The husband clearly knows.  Sometimes he calls between appointments.

Many providers let a BF, Pimp, Husband, or BFF know where they are at all times. No different than going through an agency...someone always knows where that provider is, and who she is with. There is a local provider whose husband actually calls 45 min. into your time to "remind her" time is almost up, and she charges a premium rate, and has great reviews. I would never put up with that bs as a client, but some guys don't much care. I don't think your situation is all that uncommon, but get you did not want to hear about it lol.