She was after no good for you.   Best to just drop it.  Nothing good will come from continuing dialogue with her, IMHO.

Swim

me- hey there, are you still available for the night?
you didnt leave a phone number

provider- yes i am *phone number*

(i feel suspicious doing research on provider and dont follow through)

ONE MONTH LATER....

provider-hey daddy u still miss me .. i wanna meet up with you

me-never heard of a girl named "*****" (the email name was a guy's name)

provider-neither have i isnt it a small world .... but if ur actually serious im always available an i use my cuzzins old email becuz theres alot of stalkers who i perfer not to share my whole name with but you may call me **** im available when ever you need me ... please dont reply unless your serious an u have a time available to meet

me-you look very pretty but why are there multiple girls linked to that ad account? dont like the idea of some manager hiding in the closet

provider-no i have no manager just a couple friends n i use my cuzzins email ...
im usually busy so there r a couple different girls who use the account ...
r u available 2day ... i really dont like flakes n i would like to meet you ..

me-do you offer incalls or outcalls?

provider-it jus depends on the day what would you live i could set up an incall location if u wanna schedual it i can outcall whenever.  you could send me your number n we could set up an appointment


Dont worry guys I'm not following through with this, but it was amusing and I was intrigued to what this person was after.  Any ideas?

I have a small little rule. If a date/meeting can't be setup within 4-5 emails exchanges it's most likely not gonna happen...

I also notice Fruedian slips...the biggest flakes are the ones who usually say "I don't want you flaking on me" or something along those lines. Or the ones who say "I'm serious bout meeting" then they never setup a meeting...

1 provider=1account. If she is sharing an account what is to say you meet the girl who are actually talking to?What if her "Friend" or "cousin" is low on money and talks you into meeting when indeed that is not the one you wanted to meet? Stay away from anyone who shares multiple email accounts or phone numbers. To me it just looks shady.

A person is always most likely to accuse you of doing what they are doing themselves. The flakiest provider I ever dealt with slammed me for being a flake (she had failed to confirm a date for a week, then contacted me the night before the day/time I had suggested to tell me she was having phone problems, hers fell in the toilet, could no longer meet in her hotel for reasons she would explain when we met but sure was looking forward to meeting me. When I replied that I was really disappointed but since she never confirmed the day and time I had made other plans but I hoped she was coming back soon so I could meet her - fat chance - she replied with a real rant about what a flake I was.).

If someone is worrying a lot about being ripped off, I just walk away.

Concerns about LE are a little different since that is reasonable here, but otherwise I pay a lot of attention to what people say they are worried about me doing, or accuse me of, because lots of experience has told me they are likely to be playing those games.

Caution is good, but paranoia is a bad sign.

Girls usually have multiple email or text message 'conversations' going on at once with guys they don't know or barely know, trying to stir up business, and they sometimes get mixed up.  The woman emailing you probably kept emailing because you seemed interested in hiring her.  And yea, she most certainly was sharing the account and had a pimp or agency working things.  Of course she'll lie about it.  It's also possible that not all the emails from 'her' were actually written by her.

She's an actress, dude.  Representing a business.  You are dealing with a business.  

And just like in any other business, screwing up like this is not a sign of professionalism.

-- Modified on 1/23/2011 2:22:32 PM