Newbie - FAQ

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I don't know what the policy is, but quite frankly I don't think a provider should be delisted if she has a preponderance of bad reviews. (I know two highly reviewed providers who asked to be delisted despite no negative reviews. I can understand letting them delist, it only hurts them).

On the other hand, a poorly reviewed provider hurts the people this board was created and exists to protect, the hobbyist who used to get ripped off by frauds and crooks.

Anyway, quit being so dramatic. Take London's advice and just reintroduce yourself as a new face. Be honest, give greAt service, and you'll get things straightened out.

My other thread got pretty crazy so I thought I would just ask it here. Would TER actually just delete everything and let me start over? I find that hard to believe since they linked Mindi with Yuki when I tired to start over. Plus the fact theres tons of girls review pages here that are clearly retired (no new post in 2-3 years plus) that are still up.

I don't know what the policy is, but quite frankly I don't think a provider should be delisted if she has a preponderance of bad reviews. (I know two highly reviewed providers who asked to be delisted despite no negative reviews. I can understand letting them delist, it only hurts them).

On the other hand, a poorly reviewed provider hurts the people this board was created and exists to protect, the hobbyist who used to get ripped off by frauds and crooks.

Anyway, quit being so dramatic. Take London's advice and just reintroduce yourself as a new face. Be honest, give greAt service, and you'll get things straightened out.

You can get delisted simply by asking admin, but you can't delist and start over. Delisting is reserved for providers who are retiring or going UTR, not for someone trying to change identity. If you delust and have a new profile created, when they find out they will either "relist" your old profile and combine it with the new one, or they will ban you from TER.

You have received advice on your other thread. If you want to improve your reputation, you need to be honest in your ads, provide a good service at a fair market rate, and finf some guys willing to take a chance on you, and start getting good reviews. The goid reviews will eventually overshadow the bad ones, but you can't erase them. They are part of your history.

you can't just wipe the slate clean.   But the majority of your reviews are "OK", if not great.  I've had a BBW girl friend...  I wasn't heavy...  the sex was great.  We broke up over other issues.  (city girl, country boy).   Most clients look at the most recent reviews & the way to lose "average" reviews is to push them off the front page with GREAT reviews.  
Are you afraid you can not get GREAT reviews?  I think you can.  You need self confidence.  There is so much punlished sex technique information available these days.  But YOU have to decide that's what you want.  If really should consider your clients as 'temporary boy friends' or 'friends with benifits' and have a deep empathy to enjoy pushing their buttons.
I great deal IS attitude.

A couple of stories:
An early date, I told the lady of my partial spinal injury & my concerns.  In a soft tone, she whispered "It won't be a problem!"  She made sure it wasn't.  How could I not love her for this?

On another occasion, it seemed like things weren't going to finish...  Another Favorite's attitude was if something doesn't work...  we shift position, we try something else & so on but "I finish what I start!"  (I'd have to add At least the first time.  A second might not be possible but she guarentees the first.)   And she always has.  

This is not to gang up on you.  
I sincerely wish you the best.
HV

If this is not for you, no foul.

Email me - or even better, email London - she knows a lot more about this than I do.  Just click on her profile and get her email addy from there.

I'm glad you posted and asked for advice.  I know it's rough honey but don't worry - things will get better.

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