The first lady isn't visiting your city so she's not going to answer any message about it. She probably considers the matter closed.

The second lady doesn't want to see you for whatever reason. She might be to busy. Again move on.

Don't bother sending questions, it just a waste of time. She probably never had a family emergency in the first place, it was just her excuse.

Send polite appointment request with the date, time, incall or outcall, and a sentence or two about yourself. Don't mention anything about what you want to do with her, that what the reviews are for.

Good luck

are a difficult situation.  I have not connected with one who comes to my area periodically.  It's tough because of the limited window of opportunity from both sides.
Additionally, if you are new, you don't have the referances that a more experienced hobbiest does. This commplicates the scheduling somewhat.  It's not personal, just realities of life.
A traveling lady will be away from home, staying in a hotel (probably not in the same room she's working from), eatting her meals away from home so has a higher overhead cost.  She undoubtably needs to have a good preregistration rate to justify the trip.  There is the potential for a lady to help her business or go broke if expected appointments are insuffient.  This is probably why her schedule has gotten changed.

Personally, I tend to favor tallent in my geographical area, so that I can connect with them more reliably (larger window of opportunity) on my availability.  

I try to prescreen with a traveling lady & connect when they are hopefully available.
Best wishes,
skb

I saw the post "did I do something wrong?" and I have a somewhat similar situation but a different question.  There have been a couple of traveling providers come through my area that I wanted to make an appointment with.  I go through a listing site which has a messaging system similar to social networking sites (you send a message through the site and it emails the recipient they have a message waiting).  The first provider I sent a message to, they replied that they had a family emergency and wouldnt be in the are until the following week.  They also changed their calendar on the website to reflect the new schedule.  I replied I would have to check my schedule and I would get back with them.  I replied a couple days later with the date and time I would like to meet.  I waited until the day I was wanting to have the meeting and never got a response.  I logged on to the site to send a message and saw that her calendar had been changed to a different city and state for the time she was supposed to be in my area.  I sent a message to the provider that I never got a response about our appointment and I notice she had changed her schedule.  I asked her if everything was ok but have never received any response to anything other than the original message about the family emergency, and that has been well over a week now.

The second provider I have sent a message both through the site and through the email listed on her profile, but have not received any replies at all.  I know she is seeing clients in my area right now because I have read the reviews.

Both providers are very well reviewed, so my question is should I be doing something different?  I have no other way to contact them other than email and the messaging system on the website.  Also should I leave a negative review about the lack of response?



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When contacting a provider unless you plan on doing an overnight session wheres she's going to make at least $1,000.00 out of the session only contact the provider when you know for sure she's in your area.

I've made this mistake before, where you want to see a particular provider, and you'll send her a message after a message.  Your interntions maybe well, but you're going to come off as either clingy, weird, bug a boo, or stalkerish.  If she's a popular provider, she gets tons of messages, and phones on a daily basis. So all of the phone calls, texts and e-mails sent by you everyday will become annoying to her. Once you annoy a provider then that's pretty much it. After that has happen, best thing to do is to leave her alone afterwards, because you'll only make matters worst for you.


The best thing you can do is call at the time you're ready to have the actually session, and keep the convo like this.

YOU: Hi, How are you? I saw your ad on bp, would like to set up a 30min session an hour from now.

Also there are a lot of providers out here, if she does not want to see you then just move to another.