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Is it poor form to ask a provider how many clients she sees?
jacuzzisalesman 2491 reads
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Cmon, you don't need to be even a little bit smart to know the answer to this...NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS!

I wouldn't really mind if it was relevant but I don't feel that question is analogous. How many clients a provider sees could say something about safety, cleanliness, etc. Important questions to consider before engaging in BBBJ for instance

It may be relevant for her safety as well, and I would not mind answering how many providers I see.

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You think the provider who sees 2 guys before you get there and does a full bath after, is dirtier than one who saw no one but did not bother washing her ass? Get real. There is no answer here...period. No provider is the same, there is no real average, and rates and reviews that once gave a glimpse into volume, are still not 100 percent. If you are that worried about it, only book girls who charge 1000 bucks an hour. Bet they are only seeing about 2 a week, if that because that is all I can pull in at my rate.  And, again..it's none of your business. Even if she tells you that you are the first, you are naive to believe it lol. We will say what you want to hear...ha.




-- Modified on 4/16/2013 3:03:02 PM

Let's say there are two providers who both use the same precautions and engage in the same cleaning rituals, e.g. brushing teeth, rinsing whatever you want to make. Everything the same.  

BUT

provider A sees 12 clients a day
provider B sees 1

Sorry, but there is a difference.

Your question was not about the differences, it was about it being tacky to ask, and YES it is! Good luck with that. What if the one guy provider B sees, has fkin aids? Ooops.

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lumbermanxxx1944 reads

London,  I love you, your to the point!!!  Have a GREAT day :)

Posted By: London Rayne
Your question was not about the differences, it was about it being tacky to ask, and YES it is! Good luck with that. What if the one guy provider B sees, has fkin aids? Ooops.  

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bluepillman1863 reads

I would trust that info more from her than the number of schlongs she makes disappear everyday. Bostonguy is right. As is London. What diff does it make? People lie in this biz. Just like "real" life. They lie about their "real" name, experiences, if they've been arrested, if they have/had STD's, etc. If you want the absolute truth, see a priest. Just keep the kiddies under surveillance at all times.

All that should matter to you is whether or not you enjoy the visit. If it's part of your selection process you are kidding yourself if you think that you are going to get an honest answer.

It's better if you don't know how many came before you...

Some act like this is Church and we are all slinging virgin ass, here. Whether she sees one guy a week or 10 guys a week, has nothing to do with how "clean" she is. Dirty is dirty, and clean is clean. The numbers are irrelevant. If he is this worried, don't get a bbbj. His problem, not ours. Yes, the numbers do increase the odds of catching an std, but again....use a condom. Don't demand a service that is not safe, then bitch about the odds. Protect YOURSELF, and don't worry about what providers do.

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Posted By: London Rayne
Some act like this is Church and we are all slinging virgin ass, here. Whether she sees one guy a week or 10 guys a week, has nothing to do with how "clean" she is. Dirty is dirty, and clean is clean. The numbers are irrelevant. If he is this worried, don't get a bbbj. His problem, not ours. Yes, the numbers do increase the odds of catching an std, but again....use a condom. Don't demand a service that is not safe, then bitch about the odds. Protect YOURSELF, and don't worry about what providers do.  

-- Modified on 4/16/2013 3:07:23 PM

I think it's actually a valid question.

People like to try and get a surgeon's first appointment of the day because the surgeon is more likely to be fresh and alert.  In reality, most surgeons are probably as fresh and alert on their first surgery as their last of the day, but do you really want to risk your life on it if you can have a preference

Sure, it's a valid but stupid question, because there is no way to know the damn answer! With a surgeon, you can see his posted schedule of surgeries and get that info from the damn receptionist lol. Who are you going to get info on hookers from, other than us? Besides that, this is not brain surgery. I can blow a guy in my damn sleep. So even though, you can be concerned and may think you have some 'right to know' you actually don't. No one is FORCING you to pay a hooker! You have the option of going offend the slut at the bar, by asking her how many guys she fked last week.

Here are some common things hookers all say on a website...

I am low volume. I don't see more than one guy a day. I am selective in whom I see. I don't need to do this work, I want to do it. I prefer (but can't get) multi hour appts. otherwise, she would not have an hour to begin with.

We also all have another income, are in grad school, and have been to Paris 4 times last year. I am sorry, but this is all too funny to me. Saying you believe someone when they give you a random number of guys they see with NO PROOF, is about as dumb as thinking she 'really likes you' too, and not just your wallet bwahahhaha.

It is no one's job to protect YOU, but YOU! If you are naive enough to assume the girl saying she does not see that many guys (and she may not), you should show up with a hazmat suit for every appt. There are risks in this business, and you should know how stupid it is to put your life in the hands of another, based only on what she SAYS. Now, it's been a while since I have toured but if a guy would say "I want to be your first appointment," what do you think I am going to tell him lol.

In fact, I know girls who will do on purpose to swallow some giz, just to know guys who ask this question are kissing them right after, so be careful what you go around asking babe. There is no union here. Do you really want to offend a chick that is about to have your d*ck in her mouth?

Do you think women who offer bareback full service or have an STD tell anyone about it? LOL...ok. It's the same principle with another question that can't be proven. Yes, there are both providers and hobbyists here with diseases! Protect YOURSELF!







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Second, requesting or trying to get the "first" appointment of the day may have some validity, but is a totally different issue than the OP.  Asking how many clients a provider sees is just rude and irrelevant.  Besides that, even if it wasn't inappropriate, and you got away with asking, how in hell would you know it was the truth anyway?  

If you are concerned about those things, then read the ads (read between the lines), read the reviews, and look at the rates.  All will give you a better idea of a lady's volume, AND will leave you in a much better place to have a good experience should you decide to see her.

LOL, or check her post count. Pretty obvious who never works around here lol.

hello,
thank you for the reply. can you give me some tips on how to read between the lines of ads to see if the provider has diseases etc. also is what you're suggesting that providers who charge less are more likely to have stds or sti? thank you

My response was regarding how to get a "feel" for her volume from other tips and available info.  As has been said, numerous times, you will never get a true answer to that question AND it is really not relative to how clean a provider is.  While it is true that increased numbers of encounters can increase the risk, it is ultimately up to the provider to take care of herself, and for you to take care of yourself.  You can catch an std or sti from ONE encounter if you are not carefull.  She could catch one from you!  There is risk all around and each has to decide what level he/she is comfortable with.  You have to do your homework, educate yourself, and make your own risk assesment.  You cannot rely on anyone else to tell you.  

I sent you a PM.  Hope you are able to read those

thank you. i cannot yet, but i will post reviews soon (probably) and i should be able to read it then

bluepillman1847 reads

My thoughts and prayers are with you and Beantown bro.

Very sad situation with 3 innocent bystanders killed and 170 or so injured-some very seriously. Fortunately the first responders were amazing-both professionals and volunteers-so the injured got almost immediate medical attention.

I was watching it all at home on the tube.  I did know several people working at the finish line but all are safe.  

at least once a week.  

As long as she treats you right, what difference does it make?

She will probably be offended and give you a BS reply or she will tell you the truth and you will have a number you can in no way verify.  In essence the answer is none of our business and as long as the lady is safe and provides a quality experience the number is irrelevant.

as others have said, there is no way you are going to get an honest answer. Why would she tell you? Here are some reasons why she would not:

You are effectively asking her how much money she makes, or how important your business is to her.

It could destroy the mood and her chance to keep you as a client. A lot of guys, and it sounds like you are one of them since it sounds like the answer you want is a very low number, like to imagine they are her only guy.

It does not reflect on your safety, or hers. A lady who sees one client a day could be offering BBFS and seeing a lot of guys and girls on her own time without protection, while a lady who sees 5 guys a day could be obsessed with protection.

So, despite what you said, it is really none of your business.

But, no, it is not rude to ask unless the lady takes offense and most will not. But do not expect to know anything more after she answers than you did before you asked.

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