About my recent first incall experience. Following the advice I had found on here, I deposited the donation, we visited a few seconds and I asked to use her restroom to give her a chance to check the funds and I was nervous enough, I really needed to. She got really apprehensive and said that was a "cop thing". I thought she was going to bolt. I asked her how so and she said they go in there to call in back up. I took my phone out, set it on the table by the donation and invited to her to come in with me if she wanted to. She did and after, all was great but should I have done something differently or did I break a protocol? I tried to schedule another visit but when she answered the phone yesterday, she said she needed to call me back in 20 minutes. I told her that was fine but no call ever came so I am assuming she isn't interested in seeing me again. I hope she doesn't still think I am a cop but it is honestly more lilkely I just really really suck at sex and it isn't worth the money to her!!

If you are worried about her taking your shit, then take off your clothes and leave them outside the bathroom door, and leave it open while you pee or wash your hands.

and it is important to follow it to the letter.  So, if she says to leave the envelope by the bathroom sink, then do so.

On the other hand, some providers don't.  In that case, just non-challantly toss the envelope down MAKING NO MENTION OF IT.  A good place is on top of her laptop if she has one, or otherwise right on the bureau.

If she says something like:  Would you care to step into the bathroom to freshen up?, then do so.

In other words, let her be in control rather than set up some kind of protocol of your own.

I'd do it that way on first dates, though on repeats, more often the donation waits until after the action.  
I always use the rest room, if only to wash my hands...  no place for the shy!  I leave the bathroom door open or half open & carry on a conversation.  It's my understanding that undercover cops wait until they have made their case (a statement of sex for money = prostitution).  Then the cop will look for an excuse to get near the door to open it...  so backup can rush the door.  

I think she didn't call you back because she got busy.  Circle back when you plan another play date.  
Providers aren't usually picky about the performance of their clients...  or we'd all be in trouble.   If you didn't harm her, paid correctly & left at the end of your time, than you did everything which could be expected of you.
Now, if you have little sexual experience, providers are a great way to become more experienced.  Now, realize that women, like men, have certain parts in common but are notconstructed exactly the same & have different likes & dislikes.  WHEN you are alone together, you can whisper that you're not real experienced and would like to learn more about pleasing your partner.  Be gentle, be clean & let her guide you.  As an older man, I've become a better lover.  I often say "I'm the motor" but "She's the driver".  It's pretty much impossible to force your partner to cum.  

I think you did nothing wrong.  Remember she's only your GF for the time in question...  this is not Match . com  If you want to see her again, that's fine.  But you are also free to choose another.  Or rotate Favorites.  

Be very careful.  The post-coitus hormone surge...  makes all of us 'fall for' the woman of the moment.  You may love what she does, but you don't love HER.  You only know her provider personna.  You don't know HER.   Keep your heart on a short leash.  Actually this is a good lesson...  should be taught in sex ed...   applies to civie dating as well.   Many of us have learned this the hard way.  

Also know, this is a secret world.  Except for these boards...  you can not reveal this hobby.  Not to your buddy, your brother, a GF, even the girl you are about to marry.  It is a mine field.  You will soon not be able to deny your sexual experience...  so you say you had girl friends before.  You never reveal how long they were your GFs for.  I'll take this to my grave...  with a sh*t eatting grin.  

I became sexually experienced at a young age in the late 1960s...  after that relationship ended, I went out on a few dates.  I didn't expect sex early in a relationship but somehow in the makeout sessions...  the girls could sense that I was more experienced than they were ready for.  

OK, I've rattled on...  hope I gave insite.

she forgot to return your call. You never know

a little paranoid.
I've never had an issue with the envelope.
Plop it down on the bed-side stand and that's it........simple.
( unless they want it left in bathroom )