I'm interested in trying an outcall but I don't need someone showing up to a nice hotel where a conference is dressed like a.....  I assume you just let them know to dress conservatively, give them your room number, and they come on up?  Any tips?  I'm sure I'm overthinking this since they are the professionals.

Providers who do outcalls to hotels, on a regular should know how to already come to a hotel and discreet.

I'd speak to the provider before hand, and let her know what type of hotel you're staying. If it's a 5 star hotel like the one, at the National Harbor, she'll know to come dress one way to not draw attention to herself.

But if you're at the LaQunita, she'll know to come dress another way. However hotels like that are used so much for escorting that most hotel staffs can spot a provider or a hobbyist the moment they walk in the room. If everyone is dscreet, and does not do anything stupid to draw attention to themself in most cases dont care. Heck, I know of place where the housekeepers will let the girls know if LE is there.

If you stick with well reviewed providers you shouldn't have any issues. Yes, they are the professionals and know what to do in the case you are describing. Read the Self-Help Center at the top right of this board the link is under the life saver. There are answers to all you questions. Read it all. Read back on this board several pages many questions are answered.

you wont see Julia Roberts showing up in hooker boots. These women are very private and will usually not dress up unless you ask, especially if they are out at a hotel. Dont sweat that.
Try meeting at a bar or restaurant nearby and go up from there. Good luck!
Buck

Depending on the hotel you're staying at.  If in fact, that's the case at your "nice" hotel, you'll need to make arrangements to meet the lady.  This is usually done at the lobby bar of your hotel. If you're not familiar with the hotel, call the hotel and ask before you make a reservation. Let the lady know about the hotel security. This is NOT a problem, it just needs to be handled as you set the date.

You'll be amazed at how sophisticated this can be.

If you follow the other advice to read reviews, only go with well reviewed providers, etc., you shouldn't have a problem with B&S = bait and switch.  You also have been alerted to the possibility of secure access to elevators hence the need to meet in the lobby or bar.

In some cities (specifically, New York City Asian outcalls are notorious for B&S), with some agencies or even so-called independents, someone might show up who is not the girl in the picture.  If that happens, you can say some such thing ("But you're not the girl in the pictures!") and not go through with the transaction. In SOME cases, it is expected that you will at least cover her (reasonable) travel expenses and that's all. Some people find that easier to do in the lobby or bar; others in the room. Even if the elevator isn't restricted, you might want to meet in the bar first to make sure she is the girl in the pics. In some cases, if the B&S is bad enough, she gets nothing.

B&S will NOT BE A PROBLEM if you go with a well reviewed provider who uses accurate recent photos in her ads.

Good luck.

(The dialog might continue:
But you're not the girl in the pictures.
 Yes, I am.
But the girl in the pics is young, thin and cute, you're old, fat and ugly!
 But I am the girl in the pics.
When were they taken, 10 years ago?
 8
Well, come back 8 years ago. I think I've changed my mind. I can't go through with this. Please leave.
 You still have to pay.
No, I don't. You're not the girl in the pics. This was bait and switch.
etc.

It's been my experience that for an outcall appointment, the girl is at least 30 minutes late about 8 times out of 10.

Thanks for all of thse replies they are extremely helpful.  I was picking a well reviewed person but I never thought about the secure elevator, which the hotel almost certainly will have.  Waiting around in the bar will not be an option so I think it is best to stay clear of the outcall for now.

I can tell you that noone has ever suspected me of anything but being a tourists. I am always discreet and I make it a point to make sure I make eye contact with anyone who requires it as I walk through said hotel. Avoiding eye contact only looks suspicious and raises eyebrows. I am always friendly to everyone. I walk through any lobby like i own the place and I belong. As far as secure elevators are concerned, as long as it is a normal hr between noon and 10 pm, I have never found it to be a problem getting onto an elevator requiring a card. I always pretend I am looking for my card as I enter the elevator and someone is always offering help for my floor. The few times a "friend" was worried about the elevator, I had him come outside and walk down the block when I was close as we were on the phone and greeted eachother like we were old friends and walked in the hotel like buddies who havent seen eachother in a long while..

Its all about apprearence when a provider shows up. I dress upscale casual..no body parts hanging out..

you could always mention something when making appt..if she gets insulted, she is not for you. I have been asked before they met me and they mentioned dress for when I show up. I do not get insulted, but I let them know they have no reason to worry..


oh and for the record, the latest I have ever been was 10 mins..not all outcall providers are late..

I mostly do incalls, but I have done more than a few outcalls, too.

I agree that the lady is almost always late.

I do not agree that the lady will know how to dress. If you want her to dress low keyed, tell her so. And even then, her idea of low key may not be yours. Sprayed on jeans, a form-fitting top with a very low cut neckline is not exactly low key, nor is a skin tight leopard skin print dress.

On the other hand, I have had ladies arrive in an outfit that would work in any office setting, very professional. So it is completely a YMMV situation, and I do not think it even relates to how many outcalls she does. Some just do not understand what it means to be low keyed.

Unfortunately, I cannot say there was any pattern to this, either in terms of number of reviews, price point. Maybe if the lady is in her late 20s or above she is more likely to understand how to dress, but even that is not a sure thing. Read the reviews, look at the pictures on the web site, and try to get a feel for how she presents herself, and how others saw her.

I would never do outcall with other people I know staying in the hotel. Find an incall. Odds are outcall would not be a problem, of course, but why take the chance?

enjoy,
zig

So, from now on could we get you guys to book us about 30 minutes earlier than you'd ike us to show up....This should help cuz gawd knows I've tried.
Girls just aren't good with navigating ourselves....it's pretty bad...lol
Thanks for the help!!