The provider didn't have any reviews on here, but I guess I was desperate.  The ad said outcalls, so I asked if my apartment was ok.  I gave her the address and she never came.  She gave me some excuses and was slow to respond to texts.  

Could this have been some kind of scam?

sounds like she's just not serious about this job. not a scam just a time waster.
Where did you find her?

It might have been a scam, it might have been a way to get your address. It also may have been a provider that is new, got cold feet, got a better offer (longer date for more money), mechanical problems, etc. What was her excuse? How did you find her, that is where was her ad? If she was for instance a BP girl they are like crapshoots. Some great ones and others who are complete scammers and fakes. I would suggest just move on and try to find someone else unless she apologizes and offers to try again, maybe at a discounted rate for your trouble.

With an unreviewed provider isn't a good idea. Be glad she was a no show. Lots of things could have gone wrong. Stick to well reviewed providers.

I would strongly advise you see well reviewed and often reviewed girls.

The odds of a scam or LE will fall dramatically if you do.

You were fortunate in this case but may not be the next time.  

No trying to scare you but educate you. There is a very real and very large risk in this business if you don't approach it properly.

Be safe bro.

make sure you lock your doors..she { or he } has your address now..never use your private residence..there is logical reason for using a hotel..everyone stays safe..

I'm very sorry that you had such a disappointing and unprofessional experience. However, the unfortunate situation with the provider in question is a case by case situation only. Nonetheless, I do understand your caution and apprehension in dealing with other providers with similar variables (i.e., no reviews).  

As a fairly new provider, I have seen several clients who were very pleased with my service; however, they either do not give reviews for any provider per their preference or they don't feel completely comfortable with giving a review because of possibly revealing their secret leisure adventures that per their perspective could possibly ruin their families, careers, etc..., which isn't a risk that they are willing to take. Unfortunately, that has left me without reviews at the moment; however, I respect my clients decisions to review or not to review without pressuring them outside of their comfort level.  

Of course, your reservation about providers without reviews makes perfect sense because as with any job, if you don't have 'experience' to show, there is a risk of you either being great or absolutely horrible. I completely get it.

I'm unsure as to why the provider in question would make an arrangement and not honor it or even communicate to you the reason and also provide accommodations that she will offer for your inconvenience. Once again, I am sorry that this happened to you. However, please understand that no reviews doesn't equal law enforcement, bad service, no shows, etc... I would suggest to do your research on any provider that you choose, whether they are highly reviewed or not.  

Best wishes -Abla

we have to say "Newbies should only see well-reviewed providers who have reviews from established reviewers. Three reviews from 3 different guys with 1 review each does not make for a good choice.

Do your thinking with your big head not the little guy between your legs.

Does your apartment suck?  It's easy enough to lookup addresses on google and see if your apartment is sketchy.

Did you talk to her?  Or text?  If text, are you *sure* she was the one responding, and not some manager/friend/booking agent/pimp?  (Most of the times I've been stood up by unreviewed BP girls, it has been exclusively through text, and in hindsight I realized I was obviously communicating with some kind of manager).

IME, you weren't looking at a scam, just a typical BP flake.