The following is hypothetical....I'm on an early morning incall date having just showered. I arrive at the location, greetings are exchanged, donation is on the table in full view, and my hostess points to the bathroom and asks if I 'd like to 'freshen up'. Is the lady expecting me to shower again? Or, just get naked and come out wrapped only in a towel? Do I say 'no thanks'? Or what? What's protocol here? What if I would really, really like her to undress me? I'm in her space for the first time and want to make sure she's comfortable with me. Thanks for your thoughtful replies.

Even if you are already showered, it doesn't hurt for you to take another one.

If a girl feels better because you took a shower right there, the session will go better.  No girl wants to have a sweaty, smelly cock in her mouth, any more than most guys want a girl who hasn't cleaned up before you put your mouth and tongue down there.

do her bidding..your balls and ass crack will be much more appealing for an early morning buffet..

gone to the bathroom even once or driven an hour or more, a wipe might be nice. Wash your hands too please.

...soap. It makes her feel more comfortable and will make the session better. If you really like for her to undress you tell her that and let her undress you for the shower. Then come out wrapped in a towel and let her remove it as things begin to heat up.

I always ask the gent if he would like to "freshen up",  some tell me they showered right before they left home to come and see me and therefore are still "fresh", but the ones who are on their lunch break or on the way home from work, might very well need to freshen up.

I offer it to everyone and am not insulted if the gent tells me he showered less than 30 min ago and doesnt feel the need to do anything.