I have been interested in two different providers for awhile. I have done my homework and now I am ready to set an appointment. Neither one of these ladies has an incall. They are both in the town that I live so I will need to get a hotel room for the time I am with them. What is the procedure here? I want to pick a nice place, but not out of this world expensive. Do I book the room for the night and just leave after the appointment? I have a secure credit card; should I use that or pay cash? Should I tell the front desk when I depart or just "be gone" in the a.m.? Should the young lady come to my room or should we get the room together? If anybody can give me some pointers I would be much obliged.
As a Newbie myself, I have pondered such a sceneiero. First off, depending on the provider you have chosen, many providers will only outcall to upscale 5 star hotels, or atleast thats what they claim in thier adds. I would think you could get a room at a Holiday In or something similar.
Be aware, that even if you pay cash, the hotel will reserve a certain dollar amount on your credit card, or you may have to put up a few hundred dollars in cash for the security deposit. Also, I'm not sure if there is a permanant record for the cc security deposit or it could also be visible online. So, if you have a SO who has access to that card, be carefull.
I would set the date with the provider. Tell her you are planning on staying at "X" hotel on "X" date and once you confirm that she is available, make your reservation with the hotel.
Have her come to the room, have a bottle of wine ready and it's really up to you and your personal situation if you stay the night or leave that night. Depending on the hotel, you can check out via the tv or simply leave your room key in the room. If you can use the CC, it makes it all that much easier, but there is a permenant electronic & paper trail.
There is no need for you to make contact with front desk once you have check in.
Also- I wouldnt get a room from a hotel that's in the same town I live in. You may run into someone you didnt know works there or someone sees you that knows you through someone else..for me it's literally to close to home.
Good Luck.
I've seen a provider near my home town who only does outcalls. I got a hotel room at hotel in a good area of town, called her and gave the room number. When we were done, she went home, I spent the night and went home the next morning. Of course, my situation may be different from yours. But there's no need to physically check-out of the hotel.
The front desk has no idea what you're doing. So how you behave with the front desk shouldn't have to deviate. For providers on tour it's a bit different, but you're a guy with a date. That's it.
My only word of advice is to note the elevators. When you call the provider with the room number, you can give her the lay of the land so she walks in with confidence knowing where she's going.
If you pay with cash and give them a credit card for incidentals. It won't show up on your credit card records.
You can see if they will get the hotel room and be reimbursed, but my guess is unless the lady knows you this is unlikely.
I would get the hotel room, let your date know which hotel ahead of time. When she gets in the area give her your room number. One thing to be careful of these days is if you nbeed a key to enter the guest room area, such as the elevator. In that case arrange to meet her in the bar or lobby. In addition getting the hotel room with your lady friend will take up her time and she may not want to be seen at the front desk.
If you are not staying the night just lock up the room and leave the key. If you don't want to do this you can tell them you need a room to nap and freshen up before an event.
I would simply ask the provider which hotels she would recommend that she feels comfortable at and then book at one of those hotels.
I travelled quite a bit this summer and stayed at alot of hotels - paid cash for every one and none of then asked to see my credit card. I didn't stay at Holiday Inn or any of the high price hotels, I was more mid price range - La Quinta's $65 rooms were my favorites.
Anyway before you book a room anywhere, ask the provider you are wanting to see for a hotel suggestion. That way you aren't guessing.
If YOU get the room it is called an OUTcall. I would just caution that you should not leave a provider in possesion of your room. YOU & YOUR CC are responsible for anything which goes on there even after you leave. She could use it as an in-call, get busted & the cops come l;ooking for YOU! Or she charges food or empties the mini-bar. If you get the room, you need to be the last one out. Don't check out, just muss up the bed, leave the keys on the dresser & a tip for housekeeping. Do not leave any party debris in the trash, dispose of off site.
Often guys ask a Provider to get the room & reimburse her for the cost, if the room rental is only for them to meet. It keeps your CC clean.
Hotel staff should not ask why you're getting a room close to home, but it is not a bad ifea top be prepared with an excuse. (Remodeling: Paint fumes, You're in the dog house, MIL snores, etc)
Best wishes,
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That's good advice, skb. I like the part about her getting the room and me reimbursing her.
Just don't be like this blogger from this article...
"one time when the maid came I hid under the bed and when she got in my room I jumped out naked waving my dick at her and laughing maniacly while hopping up and down. she ran out screaming and I wiped my ass on the sheets in her cart. another time i ejaculated on the maid when she walked in the door, and then i put some of my xanax in her cart so if she complained to her boss, I could just say that she was pissed because I was gonna rat her out for stealing my meds"
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